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About Hilary
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Oral sex on both genders, mutual masturbation, making your partner feel comfortable in certain situations, insecurities with sexual and nonsexual relationships, dealing with rejection, helping make decisions, sex refusal, and many other questions you may have. I WILL ONLY ANSWER SERIOUS QUESTIONS ASKED IN FULL SENTENCES WITH CORRECT GRAMMAR AND PUNCTUATION. I do not have any medical background. I cannot answer such questions. PLEASE, RESEARCH YOUR QUESTION FIRST. If I can google your answer, I won't answer it.

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See Educational Credentials. I've been around the block a few times. I've had many male and female partners.

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I type using proper English and I will ensure that the question asked will be answered in a completely understandable way. I have graduated college with an Associates degree in Psychology and Human Sexuality.

 
   

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Sex Advice/Oral Sex - Painful sex


Expert: Hilary - 4/18/2009

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Hi. The other day me and my boyfriend attempted to have sex for the first time. He was not a virgin but i am so i new it would hurt a little, though it was really painful. We went slowly and i was sufficiently lubricated and he was wearing a condom but he was unable to get more than the tip of his penis in as it was too painful for me...any suggestions as to why it was so painful?

Thankyou!

Answer
You're too tight and/or you might get irritated by the lubricant on the condom.

Masturbate to widen your vagina and try again.

It hurts. A lot. I cried. (I lost my virginity to a tampon...) I like, really cried. (it doesn't help that it was a paper-tube one)

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