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Question Hi. I am 18 years old and my boyfriend and I recently had sex together for the first time. We were both virgins before. So understandably it hurt me. But the next time we did it it hurt...and the next and the next. We have only done it four times and every time was incredibly painful for me. Also the first three times I bled a little bit but the fourth time I bled a lot. It kind of scared me. I don't know why it is so painful. Is there anything we can do to fix this?
Answer Saying you bled a lot sounds bad--but it really depends. It could be that his penis is too big, and he is ripping you. Also, if you are using a condom, sometimes the lubricant can hurt very badly (especially if you have recently been 'ripped')
I went about 10 months without sex before having sex with my fiance` and it hurt the first two times we did it, and I bled a little the first time. You don't even have to be a virgin to experience pain.
I would give your body a rest. Try again when you feel "healed" and see if the problems persist.
If you think you bled an abnormal amount, see your doctor.
