Expert: Hilary - 4/25/2009

Question
Hi, Me and my fiance have a great sex life but lately everything seems to be going down hill. In the past my finace could have a full night of sex making us both content as can be. Once she comes she just wants to pass out and looses all sexual intrest. This become frustrating because I have to finsh manually, or suffer for the rest of the night. What should we do?

On a side note we are very physically fit, and the doctor said, "We are both in great health".  

Answer
In my experience, It's a mood thing. Sometimes I pass out, and sometimes I'm willing (or wanting) to keep going.

If at all possible, bring yourself part way to orgasm before sex, that way you'll finish earlier--hopefully on her wavelength.

Also, even though you're 'fit' she could just be lacking stamina. Help her build it up, or just keep a red bull by the bed for when she's "done" and see if it'll keep her going.

I can't think of much else. If you'd like further advice, you could expand/reiterate your question.

I hope I've been of help!