Expert: Hilary - 4/3/2009

Question
Hey..

its taken 3 years throughour relationship but my girlfriend is finally comfortable enough to start trying blowjobs. the problem is that on the couple of occasions she's tried it does.. well nothing..!

I can feel what she's doing, i get really turned on by seeing what she's doing, but it just doesnt feel pleasurable. that said, when she's using her hands or breasts it feels incredible, so much so that admittedly i can't last all that long. It was my understanding (naiive as i may well prove to be lol) that blowjobs were meant to feel even better, so my question/concern is this.

Is it just that my cock is over-sensitive to an unnatural degree? so that like when she goes down on me it just sorta goes beyond what i can feel (hell i dunno if thats possible but thats why i'm asking for help lol)
I mean i love going down on her and making her feel great, but itd be great if it was something we could share..

As its only her first few times could it be that she's not very experienced? i mean she just sorta runs her lips and tongue up and down, doesnt suck or anything (dunno if thats the key) and doesnt really keep her mouth very wet..

anywhos yeah.. i was just wondering if there was something wrong with me and/or if so if there is anything i can do about it, cus atm i just dont have the heart to tell her that i can't feel what she's putting so much effort into...

Many thanks in advance

Geoff

Answer
It sounds like it's her. If you can think of ANYTHING she can do to make you feel better, tell her. I'm sure she'd do it.

Also--i've never been able to make a guy cum by 100% blowjob. I'd say 9 of 10 times it the happy ending is brought with my hand.