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im 17 and have never given a guy oral sex, however everyone thinks i have which puts me under pressure to be really good which makes me nervous and too embaressed to correct them, ive read a lot of your answers which has given me some confidence so thank you :) but i was just wondering how do you keep your teeth from hurting a guy while giving a blowjob? and also how do i know if im griping a guys penis too hard during a handjob?

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You don't EVER have to give oral sex if you don't want to. If you told them you did, I guess that's your beef.

Curl your lips slightly over your teeth.

He'll let you know if you're gripping too hard, I guess. It's hard to explain. Nobody ever told me... it just kind of came naturally.

Try to think of it as... An un-peeled banana. You want the banana inside to get mushy over time, but you don't want to squeeze the banana out too fast.
I give any man alive the permission to hit me if that's wrong...
I'd ask a trusted male friend, that's be best!

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Oral sex on both genders, mutual masturbation, making your partner feel comfortable in certain situations, insecurities with sexual and nonsexual relationships, dealing with rejection, helping make decisions, sex refusal, and many other questions you may have. I WILL ONLY ANSWER SERIOUS QUESTIONS ASKED IN FULL SENTENCES WITH CORRECT GRAMMAR AND PUNCTUATION. I do not have any medical background. I cannot answer such questions. PLEASE, RESEARCH YOUR QUESTION FIRST. If I can google your answer, I won't answer it.

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