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Expert: Hilary - 4/3/2009


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im going out with my boyfriend and i want to pleasure him. i want to give him a hand job and possibly oral too. problem is, i have never done either one before. can you please help me on how to do it. and what my consequences are if i dont do it right! "/ thanks

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google 'hand job advise'

If you don't do it right--
a) your boyfriend is a bad fuck (he should help you if you're doing it wrong)
b)You could... hurt him? No guy would even let you get CLOSE to hurting him.

Ask him if you can watch him masturbate! Then you can see how HE does it!

And ask him what he likes.

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Oral sex on both genders, mutual masturbation, making your partner feel comfortable in certain situations, insecurities with sexual and nonsexual relationships, dealing with rejection, helping make decisions, sex refusal, and many other questions you may have. I WILL ONLY ANSWER SERIOUS QUESTIONS ASKED IN FULL SENTENCES WITH CORRECT GRAMMAR AND PUNCTUATION. I do not have any medical background. I cannot answer such questions. PLEASE, RESEARCH YOUR QUESTION FIRST. If I can google your answer, I won't answer it.

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See Educational Credentials. I've been around the block a few times. I've had many male and female partners.

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I type using proper English and I will ensure that the question asked will be answered in a completely understandable way. I have graduated college with an Associates degree in Psychology and Human Sexuality.

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