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About Hilary
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Oral sex on both genders, mutual masturbation, making your partner feel comfortable in certain situations, insecurities with sexual and nonsexual relationships, dealing with rejection, helping make decisions, sex refusal, and many other questions you may have. I WILL ONLY ANSWER SERIOUS QUESTIONS ASKED IN FULL SENTENCES WITH CORRECT GRAMMAR AND PUNCTUATION. I do not have any medical background. I cannot answer such questions. PLEASE, RESEARCH YOUR QUESTION FIRST. If I can google your answer, I won't answer it.

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See Educational Credentials. I've been around the block a few times. I've had many male and female partners.

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Sex Advice/Oral Sex - orgasm/gspot.


Expert: Hilary - 5/25/2009

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Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been together for like 6 months. We've had sex five or six times. He wasn't a virgin at first, but I was, and it hurt, and it still somewhat hurts, but my main problem is that I cannot orgasm!
I've never really liked masturbating, but to loosen myself I have been, and I've been reading up on the "G spot" and at first I thought I found mine, but I guess I have little fingers and I don't think I got far enough. I have like no idea, all I know is that I really want to orgasm and cum completely; he always does. Anyway, I was doing what it said to do on how to make yourself orgasm (yeah right) but it felt like I needed to pee more. This may sound incredibly stupid, but I really don't want to pee on my boyfriend, because I read some people do that when they orgasm.
So I have two questions.
Is my G spot beyond that lump thing in there, or before it?
And how do i control not peeing, but ejaculating?
Oh, and a third question...
When we have sex it feels good on the inside, but like right at the opening of my vagina it hurts. What are some ways I can loosen that up?

Answer
That feeling that you are going to pee is the ejaculation. It feels extremely similar.
Lump thing? I'm not sure I understand...
Try using sex toys to achieve an orgasm. This may also help with the loosening.

Also, next time, make your questions more concise.

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