Expert: Hilary - 6/28/2009

Question
hello, my question pertains to oral sex, blow jobs in particular. i am 38 years old and have never ejaculated from a blow job, i have been with my share of girls and have had several long term girl friends. now i never have had an issue with intercourse, and really never have from a hand job ejaculation either unless it was myself. there have been a few girls that it has felt great with and my wife is really good at it but again cant cum. is there something wrong with me? am i holding back? what other things can we try? one thing i wanted to point out is that i am not real confident in my penis size, it is about 5 and half to 6 in when hard, changes from time to time. i guess in back of my head i feel in-adequate but have never really had any complaints, any advice would be great

Answer
Your size is fine. My fiance` is about the same, and it's perfect in my opinion.

Oral might just not be the thing for you. The sensation probably isn't what gets you going. Compare things like speed, depth and lubrication. Not fast enough, deep enough, and too wet might keep you from cumming.