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I was reading over oral sex performed on women, but I still have some questions that could clarify my concerns.

- When you're giving oral to a female, do you want to pull up the skin that's covering the clit itself and lick it? Or are you suppose to just leave the area as it is as you lick it(as in not pulling up any skin)?

- I know this one isn't about oral sex, but it also relates to the clit if you wouldn't mind answering as well. When you're fingering the clit to make the girl have an orgasm, do you just place the 2 fingers onto her clit area and not pull up any skin to touch the clit itself?

- And lastly, I have yet to attempt giving a girl an orgasm via g-spot. I have read that you put both fingers in about 2 inches, then pull the tips of your fingers up, then pull both fingers back out with the tips still pointed up. Doing this, I should find the rough patch of skin(aka the g-spot) right?

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First of all, I have a few comments. The first two inquires are opinion (though I will provide the majority answer)
Second, what's this two fingers crap? Who says it has to be two? One's good! Three can be good too!

Now to answer.
MOST women prefer not to have their clitoris touched directly. It's best to do all of the stimulating over the hood. That should answer both questions, I think.

And you answered your own 3rd question.

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