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I've been around the block a few times. I've had many male and female partners.
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please, before i start, I've emailed other websites like this, and people havn't
replied for whatever reason, maybe because they thought I was joking I'm not
sure.
Basically, I'm in my late teens and was born with a weird penis, and is now
only 2-2.5 inches long, 3-4 inches wide has a few weird marks on it, and half
of the head is missing at the top, as in like the left half of the head (from my
perspective), although the same basic slope down, has no rim to it, and is
usually much darker than the other side. Always the hole in the head is kind
of screwed up, such that it goes left to right rather than up and down, and
has an up and down valley thing, but no hole. Also, it just looks weird in
general at the top. Otherwise, it is completely normal, i.e. function etc.
Anyway, I'm in my late teens, and have been in some sexual situations(none
involving my penis) , and have had opportunities to perhaps have more
serious sexual acts. But I'm totally unsure of the impact my penis will have on
whoever I'm with. I mean I know men think too much about their penises, and
I've made girls come with oral sex fingering etc and that it can be just as
effective as normal sex. But I'm really worried about the hurdle it could come
become and rather than strengthen a relationship as it usually does, it could
have the opposite effect. I even have a worry that it could cause possible
embarrassment if its more casual. Also, it would be impossible to ever take
part in more than a few sexual positions. I'm only emailing this because I
know for a fact that my situation is limited to a few hundred people around
the world.
Furthermore, I'm not someone who sits around in my room and sulks about
it, I've been going to clubs, parties, pubs etc for a few years, (fake ids :P).
However this kind of works against me in that I get jeered a bit for never
going past first base or having a girlfriend.
I just really, really, really, really, want some feedback on your opinion about it
in general. Like how you would react if u saw it, what I should do to make it
up for it, anything you deem appropriate, because its worrying me more and
more, especially given there's a girl I'm keen on who is also on me, but I'm
apprehensive about whether my sexual, err, weaknesses could have on a
relationship, especially given shes already had sex a fair bit.
PLEASE, reply to my question, I would be so grateful.
Thanks,
Will
Answer To be honest, I don't have that great of advice for you. I've always had the rule of thumb, "it has to be bigger than your thumb"
And this is the first time I've ever talked to someone who didn't meet that.
The only thing I would say, is you need to find someone who loves you for you. My fiance` has Eczema on his genitals, and he was VERY shy for almost a year, he never told me about it until we decided we would marry. He'd been a virgin until then. Slightly similar situation...
But other than that, I wouldn't know what to tell you.
