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Hello,
When my boyfriend and I start fooling around, and he stimulates me with his hand, it feels great!! However after or the next day I am very sore...It is a little frustrating because it feels so good, but the pain is not sexy at all!
Any suggestions on how to make it not too sore...I am hesitant to tell my boyfriend to switch things up because it does feel good (like I said before).
I thank you for your help and time!!
I'm not sure where you're feeling sore, but it sounds completely normal. It's extremely common to be sore in different places after sex, or other sexual activities. There's really no solution to this. Usually it will pass, and you won't get sore as often or at all.
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