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Hi me and my girl friend have been peforming oral on each other to r about six months now and I love going down on her so very much and she loves it but when she goes down on me I notice that she shakes alot when she does, now not to brag or anything but I'm almost 10" and the first time she went down on me she puked but now doesn't I belive that is part of the problem but in short what can I do to make her more comfortable when she goes down on me after all she says she loves to even if I don't return the favor(I always do though)

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Even though a lot of girls say they like giving head, it's never plesant. There's gagging, and all kinds of being careful to cover your teeth, etc. I'm not sure what her reason is, but it may help for her to not go as far down your shaft. She can still pump you with her hand while she licks/sucks your head. There are many other issurs it could be. It could be mental. She could be shaking of nervousness. It's hard to say. Ask her why she's uncomfortable.

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Oral sex on both genders, mutual masturbation, making your partner feel comfortable in certain situations, insecurities with sexual and nonsexual relationships, dealing with rejection, helping make decisions, sex refusal, and many other questions you may have. I WILL ONLY ANSWER SERIOUS QUESTIONS ASKED IN FULL SENTENCES WITH CORRECT GRAMMAR AND PUNCTUATION. I do not have any medical background. I cannot answer such questions. PLEASE, RESEARCH YOUR QUESTION FIRST. If I can google your answer, I won't answer it.

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