Expert: Hilary - 8/21/2009

Question
I was just wondering what is a typical sex "episode" like? In movies it seems like both partners climax at the same time but I've been told that it's just unrealistic and hardly ever happens. Wouldn't it be frustrating for both partners if you just stopped when your partner climaxed then started up again when he/she was ready?

Answer
The thing is, that you've just gotta stay in the game until your partner is done. It's a little hard for guys if they go limp, but if a woman climaxes she should keep going until her partner does. Sometimes you must face the reality that only one of you will climax. Women often fake it. I used to, but I don't have to anymore.

With phone sex and mutual masturbation it's much easier to orgasm at the same time, one can slow down/speed up for the other.

It's not exactly realistic for both partners to hit the mark at the same time, but it DOES happen.

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