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Oral sex on both genders, mutual masturbation, making your partner feel comfortable in certain situations, insecurities with sexual and nonsexual relationships, dealing with rejection, helping make decisions, sex refusal, and many other questions you may have. I WILL ONLY ANSWER SERIOUS QUESTIONS ASKED IN FULL SENTENCES WITH CORRECT GRAMMAR AND PUNCTUATION. I do not have any medical background. I cannot answer such questions. PLEASE, RESEARCH YOUR QUESTION FIRST. If I can google your answer, I won't answer it.

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See Educational Credentials. I've been around the block a few times. I've had many male and female partners.

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I type using proper English and I will ensure that the question asked will be answered in a completely understandable way. I have graduated college with an Associates degree in Psychology and Human Sexuality.

 
   

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Sex Advice/Oral Sex - bad in bed


Expert: Hilary - 8/2/2009

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I've been with my boyfriend for a few years now. He was the 1st and only guy I've ever had sex with. Hes truly a great guy and the love of my life. normally when we have sex hes really good at pleasuring me but lately I've noticed that he hasn't ogasmed at all. when i talked to him about it he had mentioned that I'm not exactly "good" in bed. obviously I'm not the most experienced girl in the world but it was still really hard to hear. i do admit that I'm not the most confident in that area to begin with. how can i learn to loosen up and not be so shy? and how can i cause him as much pleasure as he causes me? please HELP!!!! lol

Answer
There are a few things you can do.

I'll just list them, and if you'd like me to expand, let me know.

-Watch a lot of porn
-Act sexier than you really are
-Eye contact
-1-5 on this page: http://www.ehow.com/how_4680265_have-great-sex-husband.html
-Read up on some new positions: http://www.luckymojo.com/faqs/altsex/goodsex.html
-Don't slack!
-Keep your sexy face on
-"slow sex"
-ASK HIM WHAT WOULD MAKE IT BETTER FOR HIM
-Ask guy friends what makes good sex.
-http://handjobadvice.com/

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