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My wife has this fantasy that she has shared with me the other night. The fantasy involves me performing oral sex on another male, and having anal sex as well. Just listening to her and seeing how extremely turned on she became by all of this, made me crazy. I love my wife and would do anything for her. But this, I'm unsure of. Why would she want to see me do this and why does this make her so horny? Thanks Bill

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Almost all women find man to man relations extremely erotic and/or romantic. In fact, there's an entire cult following of what's called "yaoi". It's a japanese thing. Made usually by women, for women. Novels, comics, and cartoons (anime), all made with boys love as the centerpiece. It's so popular, in fact, almost anything you can think of has yaoi. Even the show House MD has yaoi, fan written instances of man to man. 95% of it is written by women. I don't know why, but it's AMAZING!!! I have entire weeks where I submerge myself in it. It's normal.

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