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I've been around the block a few times. I've had many male and female partners.
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Question There was a co worker who had been trying to hook up with me for about three months. He would say things like just looking at me made him horny. Finally, about two weeks ago i gave in. I thought it would be great but he came in no more than five minutes!! Is this good or bad? His excuse was he hadnt had sex in a while. we didnt try again that night. A week later we did hook up again and the same thing happened!! No more than four minutes!! i did complain so we tried again and in the middle of round two he says sorry im jst not into this and stopped!! his excuse was he had a lot on his mind what does this mean? did i hurt his ego or i suck at sex? later on i texted him mad confronting him about the situation. His response was sorry i guess i am jst not that into you i thought i would try again cause i thought the first time was a fluke but guess not hopefully we can still be friends....??? did he say this cause i hurt his ego about him not being able to last long and so i would think its my fault?? or he just orgasamed to please himself and get it over with?? please help im so confused and embarrassed!!
Answer You were being too critical. Everyone is self conscious to some degree with sex. Unless it's a long-term relationship or a 1 night stand, YOU AREN'T ALLOWED TO COMPLAIN.
Apologize to him, admitting that you were being kind of a bitch. Some guys just cum early. the last question I answered was from a guy who couldn't last even 30 seconds... no matter how many times he tried.
He was offended, I'm sure of it.
Also, look into sexual harassment. You probably shouldn't give in.
