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About Hilary
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Oral sex on both genders, mutual masturbation, making your partner feel comfortable in certain situations, insecurities with sexual and nonsexual relationships, dealing with rejection, helping make decisions, sex refusal, and many other questions you may have. I WILL ONLY ANSWER SERIOUS QUESTIONS ASKED IN FULL SENTENCES WITH CORRECT GRAMMAR AND PUNCTUATION. I do not have any medical background. I cannot answer such questions. PLEASE, RESEARCH YOUR QUESTION FIRST. If I can google your answer, I won't answer it.

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See Educational Credentials. I've been around the block a few times. I've had many male and female partners.

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I type using proper English and I will ensure that the question asked will be answered in a completely understandable way. I have graduated college with an Associates degree in Psychology and Human Sexuality.

 
   

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Sex Advice/Oral Sex - Premature Ejaculation


Expert: Hilary - 9/9/2009

Question
I have recently been having sexual relations with my lover, and I noticed that I can only last just under ten minutes once I am inside her...
This is obviously very embarrassing and I feel insecure becuase she disserves more than that!!!
I was hoping that you would know how to get her to come even if I can only last around ten minutes...
I have been doing alot of things to help myself, and I might be able to last longer now, but what do I do to fully please her!!!
She wants me to give her oral, and I'm kind of nervous becuase ive never done it before - a little on her clit, but that is it...
and she likes it really fast and hard, and I can't do that for very long... so what else could I do? She doesn't like it in the ass, and I have fingered her to the point where she told me to stop - and I made the mistake of stopping... could I finger her till she is about to come, then have sex with her, or will the transition make her lose that feeling?

Answer
Ten minuets isn't all that short. Many men can't last 2 minuets. Self control and experience are the only things than can help you last longer.

Research on the web about giving oral sex, it's easier than me telling you from scratch.

Talk to her. Tell her what you want in sex, and ask her the same.

Yes, you can, and should, transition from different types of sex. Oral/hand/penetration. They're all interchangeable.

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