Expert: Hilary - 9/19/2009

Question
Hi, I am 17 years old and my boyfriend is also 17. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for several months now and we have gone all the way (we've had every type of sex with each other). I don't have a problem with our sex life but I am just curious about something. First of all, we do not have vaginal sex and anal sex very often (although, we do it every once in a while) but oral sex is something that we both do daily. I suck my boyfriend's dick at least once a day and he licks my pussy at least once a day. So, I give my boyfriend multiple blowjobs a day and he licks my pussy multiple times a day because we have found that oral sex is a very quick way to pleasure each other (it is much faster than having vaginal sex or anal sex). Anyways, my question concerns my boyfriend licking my pussy. About a week ago, I was taking a nap on my boyfriend's bed after having sex and when I woke up, I found my boyfriend with his head between my legs and licking my pussy. I was so surprised! He told me that he was just licking my pussy and I said "okay" but I was really confused and it's been on my mind ever since. I haven't talked to my boyfriend about it yet and I don't know if or when I should bring it up. In case you don't really know what I'm confused about, I'm talking about the fact that he was licking my pussy while I was asleep! People give oral sex to other people to give them pleasure... And obviously, I can't feel any pleasure when I'm asleep! There's only one logical conclusion that I can draw from this and I think it's really weird... Is it possible that my boyfriend actually likes licking my pussy? I mean, not for my pleasure, but for his own pleasure. What I mean to say is that does my boyfriend actually like the smell and taste of my pussy? If he does, I think that's really weird... I mean, I give my boyfriend lots of blowjobs but I just hate the smell and taste of dicks! So, I would never suck a guy's dick if he was asleep and I would never give a blowjob to someone who didn't want it. And I think that my pussy smells gross and I imagine that it tastes really gross, too... So, is my boyfriend a pervert and a weirdo? I just can't believe that he actually likes the smell and taste of girls' pussies... I don't know what to think about this! Should I be happy that my boyfriend actually likes the smell and taste of my pussy because that means that he'll lick my pussy a lot? Or should I be sad that my boyfriend's a freak and there's something seriously wrong with his sense of smell and his taste buds? I'm really confused right now! I've never heard of anyone who actually likes the smell and taste of someone's genitals... I'm pretty sure that my boyfriend is the only guy in the world that actually likes the smell and taste of girls' pussies! So, please help me! What should I think about this? I'm sad that my boyfriend's a pervert and a weirdo but at the same time, I'm also happy that he likes the smell and taste of my pussy because it's very flattering. So, what exactly should I think about this? Please help!

Answer
You're very funny, you know. Try to cut down your questions to about half next time.

My fiance` and I have conversations about pleasing each other in our sleep... we haven't done it yet, but we're curious.

He says he loves my pussy. He likes to lick it and touch it. Not really for my pleasure, either. I prefer vaginal sex. It's most definitely not weird. OR perverted! Yes, vagina smells gross, but I hear the taste isn't as bad as you would think. If you're curious, why don't you lick your finger after touching yourself?

I actually think that you dislike the smell and taste of penis to be weird. Penis is my favorite smell. No joke. The taste isn't amazing, but I often fall asleep cuddled up to my fiance`'s pelvis just so I can smell him...