Expert: Hilary - 9/13/2009

Question
when me&my bf have sex,it is really hard at first bc myvagina doesnt like get wet enough..im not sure how to fix that problem besides using lubrication, and im not too into that bc it gets everywhere.do you have any advice?oh and im really self-concious about"down there"bc the vagina isnt really the prettiest thing ever,should i worry about that?

Answer
Honestly, I'm not sure there's a way to naturally make yourself become wetter... but the easiest solution is saliva! Even if you're not cool with going down, then you can gather lots of saliva in your mouth, and lick the tips of your fingers and get it all on there. You can lubricate him or yourself or both.
It's actually what I do!
It's free, natural, and safe.

Also, though I feel the same way about vaginas not being pretty, my Fiance` insists that it is and he LOVES looking at it. I think he's weird for it and sometimes I don't let him... but he's not alone! There are millions of men and women out there who love pussies!