Sex Advice/Oral Sex/orgasms


I am a 22 year old college student recently married. I love everything about my sex life besides I have never had an orgasm. I have tried vibrators, creams, toys, different positions etc. nothing seems to work. The most stressful thing is my husband feels like he's failing me since he's never not gotten a person off. Any suggestions?

You are pretty young.  If you can be patient and relax, you will have a better chance of an orgasm.  It is easier to learn to have orgasms masturbating instead of in intercourse, so a masturbation session a couple of times a week will give you a chance to practice.  Getting your mind to an erotic place also helps a lot.

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