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Iím a woman very confused about this Ďmultiple orgasmí thing. The problem is, when my boyfriend and I have sex, I can only reach orgasm by him stimulating my clitoris. After Iíve had an orgasm it immediately feels sour. My vagina feels ridiculously sensitive and I donít want to be touched anymore. Even if he stops touching my clitoris and just continues having sex it doesnít feel the slightest bit good any more. I feel like the walls of my vagina are spasming and I get really tight. I can usually bare it for a little while until it just gets too painful and I canít continue. Is there any way I can fix this? Arenít women supposed to be able to come again? I feel like I need at least 30 minutes to recharge after an orgasm before it could feel good again.

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Hi Rebecca,

Every women is different.  It sounds like you are having some pretty intense orgasms.  Try to time your orgasms so you both get off at about the same time and  then cuddle for 20 or some minutes and then start all over again.   You might try some vaginal desensitizing creams or gels.  I am not sure they will help but it might be worth a try.  On my web site I have the Intimate Couple Store.  There are many boos dvds and accessories to improve your sex life  You might take a look at Pure Romance Up All Night Desensitizing Cream Passion Fruit 2 Oz      http://changescoaching.com/sex/?page_id=255

Have a great day,

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