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Hi, I am a male and have been masturbating for a few years at a couple of times a week on average. I have never used lube (mainly because I don't want my mum to find it), but just used my foreskin rubbing up and down. I notice that if I have an intense session then my foreskin becomes a little irritated. Could I be doing damage by not using lube?

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Hi Josh,

It is not likely you are doing any permanent damage.  Guys have been doing this for ever and it is very unlikely you could hurt yourself that way.  You could always vary the method you are using.  Or just get some hand lotion.  Standard old hand lotion.

Good luck,

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