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Hello,
I have many issues with sex. I have been dating this guy for 10 months and he is a premature ejaculator. We have had sex a few times and i have never climaxed, not even on my own. I have always faked it. I don't know if i should tell him I've never climaxed and i don't know what to do to climax. Please help me!!!!!!!!! I really don't know what to do.

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Hi Kaitlin,

I wrote an article on female orgasms that you may find helpful.  Here is a link  Female Orgasms

There are two issues.  One is his premature ejaculation.  The most effective tool I have seen to deal with that issue is Hypnosis.   Here is a link to a company that has a very safe and effective system of Hypnosis Programs  .

Now, for your own orgasms, before you can show him how to please you, you may need to learn what it takes.  I urge you to explore your own body to find out what really feels good.  Once you learn how to please yourself, you can help him learn how to please you.  Here is a link to a that has several books that can help you learn what it takes.  Book Store .

Good luck,

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Neural Linguistic Practitioner Hypnotherapist Sexual Relationship Coach Internationally read author. Retired Educator All relationships are based on having certain needs being met. Healthy relationships are ones where there is a mutual meeting of these needs. Respect, honesty, communication are just some of those needs When those needs and others are not being met, the relationship will fall into disrepair. Together we will identify those needs and work to correct the imbalance. It is not too late, love can be rekindled. And it can last a life time.

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