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Iam 48 yrs old why is it so hard for me to come even with oral sex my partner is great in bith deparments its so frustrated I have to play with myself in order to come when iam having sex been like this for awhileI have tried sseveral things

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Hi Aretha.

Mother nature is not a lady.  About 70% of women do not achieve orgasm during intercourse. And in fact, many only get one rarely.  Often that is because their partner does not know what to do or how to do it.  Many women are not certain what to do either.  On my web site I have an article about the female orgasm. Take a look at that and other articles and you should get a idea of what and how to better achieve that elusive orgasm.   
http://changescoaching.com/sex/?p=220

Good luck,

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Sexual Relationship Coaching. Publish author. I am comfortable answering questions dealing with most areas of sex.

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Neural Linguistic Practitioner Hypnotherapist Sexual Relationship Coach Internationally read author. Retired Educator All relationships are based on having certain needs being met. Healthy relationships are ones where there is a mutual meeting of these needs. Respect, honesty, communication are just some of those needs When those needs and others are not being met, the relationship will fall into disrepair. Together we will identify those needs and work to correct the imbalance. It is not too late, love can be rekindled. And it can last a life time.

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Neural Linguistic Practitioner Hypnotherapist Sexual Relationship Coach Internationally read author. Retired Educator

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