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I recently started trying vaginal penetration masturbation, but I am having trouble fingering myself. It always either Hurt's or I feel like I physically cannot go any deeper. I usually lay flat on my back when I do this, any tips on how I can finger myself?

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You've just started vaginal masturbation, and it seems your body isn't ready for it yet.  I would keep up with external (clitoral) masturbation and slowly try vaginal masturbation a little at a time until it doesn't hurt anymore and you're ready to be penetrated that way.  Practice makes perfect.

To learn more about female masturbation, see: http://www.healthystrokes.com/female.html.

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