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About Hilary
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Oral sex on both genders, mutual masturbation, making your partner feel comfortable in certain situations, insecurities with sexual and nonsexual relationships, dealing with rejection, helping make decisions, sex refusal, and many other questions you may have. I WILL ONLY ANSWER SERIOUS QUESTIONS ASKED IN FULL SENTENCES WITH CORRECT GRAMMAR AND PUNCTUATION. I do not have any medical background. I cannot answer such questions. PLEASE, RESEARCH YOUR QUESTION FIRST. If I can google your answer, I won't answer it.

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See Educational Credentials. I've been around the block a few times. I've had many male and female partners.

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I type using proper English and I will ensure that the question asked will be answered in a completely understandable way. I have graduated college with an Associates degree in Psychology and Human Sexuality.

   

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In Category  Sex Advice/Oral Sex

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im sorry if its a little lengthy but I felt it was important to the answer being more accurate10/22/2009
  Q: i enjoy coming on my wives chest and stomach, and i have a Strong fetish to watch her rub it allover ...
  A: TRY SOMETHING NEW. There's no way in hell doing the same thing every time is going to get any better ...
doggy-style10/21/2009
  Q: I have been xclusive w/ only my husband for 10 years, at first he would/could climax in any/multi ...
  A: Seriously! I would tell him what's what! That would be so annoying! Talk to him about it. Tell him ...
What To Do During Oral Sex10/19/2009
  Q: I am 18 years old and I have a girlfriend who wants me to go down on her for her birthday which is ...
  A: Lick her clitoris. Up and down, side to side, swirl around. Finger her while you do this. ...
Sex For The First Time10/19/2009
  Q: I had sex for the first time a couple days ago. Basically, the condom ripped at the tip and so I ...
  A: If he thinks he didn't cum, and you took the EC pill, I can almost guarantee that you are not ...
!!!???????10/11/2009
  Q: WTF DO U THINK UR AT!!!!!????????? i was fliping threw sum questions when i came across a question ...
  A: I was 11... say, just 6 years ago. I remember all kinds of things, like, learning about sex and ...
masturbation with my bf10/7/2009
  Q: I have the following situation: I sometimes masturbate with my bf. For him to get the erection it ...
  A: It depends. The same guy can stay hard for 4 minutes, some for less than one. Without stimulation, ...
Anal sex question9/24/2009
  Q: I was wondering, when people have anal sex, how do they keep from getting any feces on each other? ...
  A: http://www.hemorrhoidshemroids.com/anal-sex-and-hemroids-hemorrhoids.html Generally, people use the ...
How to Lose Myself in Oral Sex9/21/2009
  Q: In a week, I'm about to meet a man who loves me and wants nothing more than to give me good oral ...
  A: When women are self-conscious, it gets on my nerves. I bet you your boyfriend would love nothing ...
The Smell And Taste Of My Pussy9/19/2009
  Q: I am 17 years old and my boyfriend is also 17. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for several ...
  A: You're very funny, you know. Try to cut down your questions to about half next time. My fiance` and ...
sex9/13/2009
  Q: when me&my bf have sex,it is really hard at first bc myvagina doesnt like get wet enough..im not ...
  A: Honestly, I'm not sure there's a way to naturally make yourself become wetter... but the easiest ...
shyness9/12/2009
  Q: My boyfriend wants to watch me give him head. I'm ok with giving him head but I feel really shy ...
  A: The fact that he wants to watch you should make you more comfortable. It means he finds you ...
your advice9/11/2009
  Q: ANSWER: Tell your parents. And your friends parents. As soon as you can. They can help you. ...
  A: Here's the deal. I have a life, and I know you do too. So shut the fuck up you little punk whore. I ...
Premature Ejaculation9/9/2009
  Q: I have recently been having sexual relations with my lover, and I noticed that I can only last just ...
  A: Ten minuets isn't all that short. Many men can't last 2 minuets. Self control and experience are the ...
sexual diseases9/8/2009
  Q: ..i m in a lot of mental anxiety and will eagerly wait for your answer.i m 26 years old.my family is ...
  A: Your penis isn't all that short, and masturbating isn't bad for you. It's not impossible to satisfy ...
female ejaculation9/5/2009
  Q: When I stimulate my girlfriends clit she will cum fairly quickly. Our sexual sessions will last ...
  A: This should have no negative impact on her health or athletic performance (other than endurance). If ...
oral sex/sex problem8/31/2009
  Q: I have a good relationship with my significant other. We get along great, are communicative and ...
  A: The problem of your lack of pleasure is common, but the easiest fix is to tell him straight up, you ...
fantasy8/28/2009
  Q: My wife has this fantasy that she has shared with me the other night. The fantasy involves me ...
  A: Almost all women find man to man relations extremely erotic and/or romantic. In fact, there's an ...
embarrassed about my body :(8/25/2009
  Q: I have been in a relationship "officially" with my boyfriend for 6 months. We are both almost 18. We ...
  A: He knows how much you weigh, he's not stupid (or at least I hope) But as for the other things, talk ...
Sexuality8/21/2009
  Q: I was just wondering what is a typical sex "episode" like? In movies it seems like both partners ...
  A: The thing is, that you've just gotta stay in the game until your partner is done. It's a little hard ...
Making her more comfortable8/13/2009
  Q: now not to brag or anything but I'm almost 10" and the first time she went down on me she puked but ...
  A: Even though a lot of girls say they like giving head, it's never plesant. There's gagging, and all ...
refuses to practice cunnilingus8/8/2009
  Q: I have been with my fiance to two years and he loves getting head but refuses to eat me out. In two ...
  A: Some guys are selfish assholes. Strike. He probably thinks it's gross or something. He's immature ...
quick sex8/8/2009
  Q: There was a co worker who had been trying to hook up with me for about three months. He would say ...
  A: You were being too critical. Everyone is self conscious to some degree with sex. Unless it's a ...
bad in bed8/2/2009
  Q: I've been with my boyfriend for a few years now. He was the 1st and only guy I've ever had sex with. ...
  A: There are a few things you can do. I'll just list them, and if you'd like me to expand, let me ...
vaginal wound7/31/2009
  Q: I really need your help. i feel really conserned about if is something bad what happen. me and my ...
  A: First of all, make sure you weren't menstrating. It would hurt like a bitch if you were cut up. ...
Oral sex on a female and the g-spot.7/26/2009
  Q: I was reading over oral sex performed on women, but I still have some questions that could clarify ...
  A: First of all, I have a few comments. The first two inquires are opinion (though I will provide the ...
The 28 year old virgin7/19/2009
  Q: I’m a 28 year old female who has never had sexual intercourse or oral sex. I wish I was in a ...
  A: Don't get so down! Think about all those people who save it for marriage, and don't get married ...
Small, disformed penis7/17/2009
  Q: please, before i start, I've emailed other websites like this, and people havn't replied for ...
  A: To be honest, I don't have that great of advice for you. I've always had the rule of thumb, "it has ...
Making my cum sweet7/13/2009
  Q: ok this is really important for me to know. I'm new in the oral sex world, and for the past couple ...
  A: Damn, eating NOT eating meat is unhealthy! I don't know TOO much about diets and taste, but most of ...
It hurts??7/13/2009
  Q: When my boyfriend and I start fooling around, and he stimulates me with his hand, it feels great!! ...
  A: I'm not sure where you're feeling sore, but it sounds completely normal. It's extremely common to be ...
is oral sex safe for health7/2/2009
  Q: i am a married man of 30 yrs . we have been married for 3 yrs my question is Is there any risk of ...
  A: There was no question in your 'second question' I don't care how you feel about her vagina being ...
creampie6/30/2009
  Q: So here's the deal, I've been married for about eight years to a woman who is not very sexual. ...
  A: I would bring it up during sex. Before you cum, tell her you wanna eat her or you can be more vague ...
oral6/28/2009
  Q: my question pertains to oral sex, blow jobs in particular. i am 38 years old and have never ...
  A: Your size is fine. My fiance` is about the same, and it's perfect in my opinion. Oral might just ...
Would I know if a guy came during a BJ?6/26/2009
  Q: Ok, so I hooked up with a guy at a party. I have a question. (This is probably really stupid, but I ...
  A: You're not pregnant. I garuantee that 99.9999% But most of the time it's obvious. There have been ...
oral sex6/26/2009
  Q: ....I have always give him oral and never have any problems in getting him to cum but I have noticed ...
  A: It's pretty much a research question. Look up handjobadvice.com and try applying anything there to ...
Painful Sex, only sometimes6/15/2009
  Q: Sometimes when my boyfriend and I have sex, the area between my vagina and butt gets these little ...
  A: It sounds to me like it's his size. Cracking skin isn't just a sex thing, if one has high arches in ...
Questions?6/13/2009
  Q: i have a few questions. well my first question is that i want to spice things up with my boyfriend. ...
  A: First Question, is more of a research question. There are too many things out there to try to list ...
first time intercourse6/4/2009
  Q: i just want to know what a girl goes through when she fisrt has sex...n how painful it is....n does ...
  A: I don't like answering these kinds of questions. The first time shouldn't be guided. It hurts for ...
boyfriend questions!?5/28/2009
  Q: Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been going out for a few weeks... I went over to his house and ...
  A: First of all, I don't need that huge story. It doesn't matter to me whether your clothes were on or ...
penis size5/26/2009
  Q: I'm still a virgin. I'm afraid that my penis might be too small for a girl to like if I get one. It ...
  A: You can't seriously think that's too small! My Fiance` is about 6.5 inches long and probably 4 ...
orgasm/gspot.5/25/2009
  Q: Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been together for like 6 months. We've had sex five or six times. ...
  A: That feeling that you are going to pee is the ejaculation. It feels extremely similar. Lump thing? ...
good? or bad?5/13/2009
  Q: hey again ok so....i was fingering her and eating her out and playing with her clit and, just ...
  A: Squirting feels very similar to peeing. You seem to be doing everything correctly. Assure her you ...
freaky sexual activity5/10/2009
  Q: Me and my boyfriend are pretty open with one another about sex and usually pretty much anything ...
  A: This one is pretty interesting to me. I claim I am satanist when asked my religion (though I really ...
Oral sex/Blow jobs5/9/2009
  Q: I've been giving my BF blowjobs for a few months now and yet I have not been able to get him to cum. ...
  A: Try looking at him, make eye contact. Many men find this very erotic. try cupping his testicles in ...
oral5/4/2009
  Q: hey hillary me and my girlfriend have been dating for awhile now and, were both virgins and were ...
  A: 1) I personally don't refer to it as cumming, but yes, girls can orgasm without squirting. It's much ...
pleasing my bf5/4/2009
  Q: I've read many articles from both male & female authors about pleasing my man orally & I've done ...
  A: If you've read up as much as it seems you have, I'm not sure there's more to tell you. There's no ...
First time sex4/29/2009
  Q: Hey Hilary, my boyfriend and i have been talking about having sex and i dont exactly know what to ...
  A: If you do chose to have sex, don't just lay there. That's unfair. The best way to prevent it is to ...
Sexual Frustration4/25/2009
  Q: Me and my fiance have a great sex life but lately everything seems to be going down hill. In the ...
  A: In my experience, It's a mood thing. Sometimes I pass out, and sometimes I'm willing (or wanting) to ...
thank you4/24/2009
  Q: is there any pills that i can buy for my girlfriend to take to boost up her up when we are having ...
  A: I don't have any knowledge about those sorts of things. You'll just have to find alternative sex ...
Sex4/19/2009
  Q: I have been married for 5 years, and prior to my husband i have only had 1 sexual partner before ...
  A: God, I can't believe this is serious. If it is... Thrust, Damnit! Garb his ass! Bite his neck! ...
Painful sex4/18/2009
  Q: The other day me and my boyfriend attempted to have sex for the first time. He was not a virgin but ...
  A: You're too tight and/or you might get irritated by the lubricant on the condom. Masturbate to widen ...
How quikly i get my girl to cum4/18/2009
  Q: also is it a bad thing that it takes me at least an hour to cum thankyou
  A: Does she actually ejaculate after 30 seconds? If she just plain orgasms, I'd say that can be pretty ...
oral sex4/17/2009
  Q: im 17 and have never given a guy oral sex, however everyone thinks i have which puts me under ...
  A: You don't EVER have to give oral sex if you don't want to. If you told them you did, I guess that's ...
ADVICE :)4/16/2009
  Q: so i was wondering, without directly asking my boyfriend to do this, and that (i just feel ...
  A: If, during 'sexy-time' (as I jokingly like to call it) you take control a bit and kind of help him ...
so.4/15/2009
  Q: i want to give my girlfriend the BEST oral ever. any advice? and also, what would increase the ...
  A: Different girls like different things. Ask her what she wants you to do. That's how I've always ...
i need some advise!4/14/2009
  Q: well my bf and i already had simple oral sex and he really enjoys it and he says im really good at ...
  A: There are lots of things you can do! First of all: I like to mix handjob and blowjob. It's more ...
Painful sex4/13/2009
  Q: I am 18 years old and my boyfriend and I recently had sex together for the first time. We were both ...
  A: Saying you bled a lot sounds bad--but it really depends. It could be that his penis is too big, and ...
how do i ????4/12/2009
  Q: i have been married for 21 yrs i would like to spice things up a bit i know my husband likes me to ...
  A: You can get over it by: a) creating something similar in texture to cum and practice swallowing it. ...
My girl friend is not comfortable with intercourse4/12/2009
  Q: I have been with my girl friend for 4 years. We have been nude and romanced many times. But when we ...
  A: There are a lot of girls who prefer small penises. Make sure your finger and penis are clean. If ...
masturbation4/8/2009
  Q: im am a virgin and get horny ALOT after a while my plain fingering tecnique gets boring and im only ...
  A: If you wouldn't mind losing your virginity, go buy a soda in a glass bottle (Like Izze, Jones Soda, ...
Fingering4/8/2009
  Q: My girlfriend and I have been having fun and i've been giving her oral but every time I try to ...
  A: Make sure your hands are CLEAN. Free of soap, sweat, food, whatever. (especially things like ...
question4/8/2009
  Q: will i get sexually transmitted disease through fingering her pussy or by kissing her pussy....wat ...
  A: Unless you have an open wound on your hand, you cannot get an STI (Sexually transmitted infection... ...
Inexperienced guy4/6/2009
  Q: My boyfriend and I recently had sex for the first time - and it was the first time he'd so much as ...
  A: This happens to A LOT of guys. Even their first time they're anxious and kind of rushy. The best way ...
Oral Sex4/4/2009
  Q: I would like to know how to give my girl the best oral sex she has ever had. Any tips you can give ...
  A: two things: Clitoris and the passageway to the vagina. Personally, I like clitoral stimulation, but ...
blowjob problems.. is it me?4/3/2009
  Q: Hey.. its taken 3 years throughour relationship but my girlfriend is finally comfortable enough to ...
  A: It sounds like it's her. If you can think of ANYTHING she can do to make you feel better, tell her. ...
oral sex and hand jobs.4/3/2009
  Q: im going out with my boyfriend and i want to pleasure him. i want to give him a hand job and ...
  A: google 'hand job advise' If you don't do it right-- a) your boyfriend is a bad fuck (he should help ...
first time sex4/1/2009
  Q: im 19 and im concerned about the way I have not had sex yet. Mostly its to do with the size of my ...
  A: I'd have to KNOW the size of your penis before I give you advise. Personally, I use the rule of ...
Adding to3/31/2009
  Q: how can i "drive him wild" without the sex? i know my boyfriend very well and i know A LOT of ...
  A: I feel like I should have more answers to this. I think the best tip is visual teasing. It works ...
Better sex with the husband.3/30/2009
  Q: When I was in college, I masturbated a lot. I wanted to be a virgin when I got married, but quite ...
  A: Try new things! Tell your hubby you want to make him happier by being more vocal, and explain the ...
no sex drive3/30/2009
  Q: I don't know if you can help me but I figured I might as well ask. I am a 20 year old female, and ...
  A: I feel as though you've answered your own question. but I do have some tips! Research some foods ...
Cunnilungus3/30/2009
  Q: My girlfriend and I have enjoyed pleasuring each other with oral sex since we have been together. (4 ...
  A: Any change in diet, medicine, hygiene, and even emotional changes can cause this. If she has ...
Sex on first night3/29/2009
  Q: I am a 30 year old male, shortly going to get married. I am very excited to have sex on first night. ...
  A: You can have sex while a woman is on her period, yes. And there is bleeding. You should do some ...
sex3/29/2009
  Q: Well I'm 15 and love sex I have had 4 partners but I can't seem to be able to stay with one guy is ...
  A: I lost my virginity at 14, but having so many partners so young can be dangerous! Be very careful ...
What to do during sex/3/27/2009
  Q: My boyfriend and i sexually active and its great. But I cant get him to orgasm. He can make me ...
  A: Wow. This is a first. Does he masturbate? Has he ever HAD an orgasm? If not, this is a medical thing ...
Oral sex3/26/2009
  Q: i am a 22 years old.my problem is that i always dreams about sex,with different kinds of angels,is ...
  A: I'm not too sure about dreams. That's something I don't know too much about. And as for the size of ...
Helping my gf have her first orgasm through oral3/26/2009
  Q: So I have been seeing this girl for a little while and we just started doing oral. Im 22, shes 19. ...
  A: This is hard to answer... I'm not sure I can help more. It seems like too personal of a problem, and ...
hot pussy3/26/2009
  Q: My boyfriend loves how hot my vagina gets during intercourse but sometimes he says its on fire(not ...
  A: Generally, it does get pretty hot down there and guys generally DO like it, but... on fire? It's ...
Helping my gf have her first orgasm through oral3/25/2009
  Q: So I have been seeing this girl for a little while and we just started doing oral. Im 22, shes 19. ...
  A: Where to start... First off, always make sure she really is ready for whatever step you're about to ...

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