|sharing a Hitachi||2/1/2017||Domina|
| Q: My husband enjoys anal stimulation while he masturbates and likes to insert our sex toys. After ... |
A: Uhggg! That is really not nice to use someone else's toy for anal play without using a condom or ...
|Discreet sex toys||1/25/2017||Domina|
| Q: I am a submissive woman and I am looking for a remote controlled vibrating sex toy that can be ... |
A: I would recommend the We-Vibe Sync which has won awards as the Best Couple's Vibe: ...
|'Ringing' electric stimulation anal toy||11/21/2016||Domina|
| Q: I've seen only 2 videos in which a particular e-stim anal toy drives the guys wild. This stimulator ... |
A: Unfortunately, I've never heard of such a thing. It seems like it is being used by remote from ...
| Q: i'm a (straight) male,i recently bought my first anal toy, the tantus slim. I love the feeling of ... |
A: It is probably good that you went with a slim toy to begin with, as you wouldn't have wanted ...
| Q: I want to buy a new cane to use on my sub. I have used several implements on her and she has a high ... |
A: Ah, canes... yes. To my knowledge, all canes can damage the skin and leave permanent marks if they ...
| Q: Do you know of a good sexual relationship dating site? I am tired of the fake stuff on Craigslist, ... |
A: Sorry, I can't advise on any dating sites. Yes, they have male vibrators that hold the penis. Here ...
| Q: Is there any herbal treatment to increase penile/pelvic blood flow? thank you. scott, 40 years old ... |
A: There are many herbal treatments that claim to increase blood flow to the penis. L-arginine is in a ...
| Q: I am a married female dominant. My husband and I enjoy bondage very much. I particularly love seeing ... |
A: Yes, he could wear chains all the time while you are home alone. You simply increase the time by a ...
|Erotic Electro Stimulation(Electro Stimming the Penis)||7/4/2016||Domina|
| Q: Please help me if you can. I need your advice/opinion on Erotic Electro Stimulation of the Penis. I ... |
A: In all honesty, I haven't heard of this happening. However, anything, including simple masturbation ...
|Oral fetish toys for men||4/13/2016||Domina|
| Q: I would like to know if there is a realistic vagina sex toy that would be suitable for my oral ... |
A: Yes, there are very realistic vaginas and fake breasts masturbators. They are very expensive, but ...
| Q: Hey there, I hope you're doing well. I'm a (straight) male and I recently discovered I really like ... |
A: I would recommend anything by Aneros. They make the best prostate stimulators on the planet and they ...
| Q: I'm looking into buying a toy called turning tom. I have used toys of similar size and shape, I have ... |
A: From the reviews I have read, yes you can use this toy for anal. However, it looks like the turning ...
| Q: I am so frustrated. I cannot reach an orgasm. When I'm having sex it feels great, but not evough to ... |
A: Have you tried using a vibrator? I would recommend trying that, as most women don't get off from ...
| Q: I am considering getting magnetic nipple orbs. I was wondering how much pressure do they apply? Can ... |
A: I haven't tried magnetic nipple orbs myself (need to get some now!). However, I found some great ...
| Q: I hope your well and I hope you've enjoyed the holidays. Do you know of a prostate toy that vibrates ... |
A: There are a lot of prostate toys that vibrate. However, there isn't one that I know of that ...
|Hollow Dildo with hole in tip||11/30/2015||Domina|
| Q: My husband has a disability that results in his penis having trouble getting and staying hard enough ... |
A: There are lots of squirting dildos on the market, but none of them that I know are hollow inside. ...
|sex toys for the aging woman||11/28/2015||Domina|
| Q: I am a woman over 70 who has suddenly developed a libido and a desire for sex. Is this common at my ... |
A: Glad to hear your libido is still going strong. Yes, it is common for women of your age to still ...
|Silicone Free Dildo?||9/24/2015||Domina|
| Q: I am allergic to silicone. In lubricants, as well as toys; it gives me an allergic reaction. This ... |
A: Well, that is a bummer. To be honest, most quality sex toys are made out of 100% medical grade ...
| Q: My husband and i have had pretty normal sex for most of our marriage. Sometimes.. most times i dont ... |
A: No, you won't get permanently damaged by putting a dildo and a penis in your vagina at the same ...
|Anal Vibrating Toys||8/11/2015||Domina|
| Q: I have been using a vibrating toy for anal stimulation for about year now and simply love it. The ... |
A: The closest thing I could find matching your description is the Billy Massager from Lelo. It says ...
| Q: I've been masturbating for a while using mostly my hands and the shower head. It's difficult for me ... |
A: Without purchasing anything, that doesn't leave you with a lot of options. However, here is a good ...
| Q: IM A BIG BLACK MASCULINE GAY MALE KIND OF CHUBBY AND I ONLY LIKE TO BE SUBMISSIVE I JUST WANT TO ... |
A: There aren't too many choices when it comes to dildo machines and they are very expensive. Most of ...
|Don't want to frighten||6/22/2015||Domina|
| Q: I have a somewhat uncomfortable question, I am a male and I for a long time I've fantasized about ... |
A: Congratulations on talking to your wife about your turn-ons. It sometimes takes a lot of courage to ...
| Q: I am in my early 20's and still a virgin. I have masturbated a little, but would like something more ... |
A: You want to start with something small, like a pocket rocket, mini wand, or rabbit ears toy like the ...
| Q: are there a list of dildos that are completely latex free and how long age wise before they have to ... |
A: Yes, there are lots of body-safe, latex-free sex toy materials. The best soft material is silicone ...
| Q: I am a dominant in the bedroom and my husband loves to play the submissive role. We have ... |
A: I don't think there is a specific time limit for male chastity. It would depend on how tight the ...
|Do vibrators work on a man's penis as well?||5/8/2015||Domina|
| Q: I've heard that if a guy uses one of those vibrators (found in Walgreens) on the underside of his ... |
A: For some men, vibration does work to help stimulate them to orgasm. For some men, it doesn't do ...
|ability to cum||3/4/2015||Domina|
| Q: I have a question it may sound corny but I am concerned. I am an avid masterbator on a daily basis ... |
A: Well, the male human body can only produce so much semen. If you masturbate a lot, then it may take ...
|Custom blow up dolls||12/14/2014||Domina|
| Q: I had an idea for a blow up doll of Norm from Cheers one can put at the table in their dinning room. ... |
A: I don't know of any company who makes custom blow up dolls. However, Pipedreams and Topco are the ...
| Q: How does one suggest ideas for new toys? |
A: I assume you want to know how to introduce /suggest toys into your relationship? Sex toys are ...
| Q: I am wonting my wife to use a strap on on me she has before but not as much as I would like she ... |
A: Finding a good strap-on can be difficult because everyone is different and there fore may need ...
| Q: So my wife wanted to try pegging I was unsure about it but wanted to make her happy and try ... |
A: Congrats to you for being brave and trying something new in the bedroom. But to answer your ...
| Q: I have a question about the eroscillator. I read on the internet that the eroscillator is a real ... |
A: Yes, the Eroscillator is a very good sex toy, excellent for clitoral stimulation, and is one of the ...
| Q: im a straight, 21 year old, married male and I feel pretty awkward saying it but I really like ... |
A: No need to feel awkward about enjoying anal pleasure. For men, anal pleasure can be exquisite as ...
|Cleaning My New Anal Toy||10/16/2014||Domina|
| Q: I recently purchased a UR3 6 Inch Anal Starter in Blush ... |
A: These are all great questions. First of all your toy is made of UR3, which is not silicone. UR3 is ...
|Clit & G-Spot Vib||7/27/2014||Domina|
| Q: My very first sex toy..Im really trying to orgasm for the first time period and ive been having sex ... |
A: If you haven't had an orgasm before I suggest starting with the clitoris for many, many reasons and ...
|Sexuality after sexual violence.||6/22/2014||Domina|
| Q: I've been struggling my whole life to discover my own sexuality and to feel comfortable with my own ... |
A: I am very saddened by your story. It is terrible that you have been made to feel ashamed of your ...
| Q: you have provided me with useful advice in regards to pegging are there strap ons that also ... |
A: Glad I was able to help you before. Yes, there are strap-ons that give pleasure to her as well. ...
|Sex Toy Discoloration||4/8/2014||Domina|
| Q: I have a sex toy that I haven't used for a while. When I went to get it, I noticed some ... |
A: It sounds like some of the color from the black toy rubbed off on your plastic toy. This can happen ...
| Q: What are the most common toys that straight guys purchase for themselves? Also by chance do you ... |
A: The most common toys that straight men purchase for themselves would be masturbators. There are all ...
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I am your Personal Pleasure Guide and I can answer questions about any sex toy on the market, including toys for women, men, transgender, bi, gay, lesbian or other. My specialties include women's sexuality, sexual pleasure and sex toys for women, including the G-spot, body safe lubricants, sex toy materials, including those to avoid. I also know a lot about men's sex toys include dolls, c-rings, prostate stimulators, anal toys, and masturbators. I have extensive knowledge about bondage and kink toys including proper and safe usage, as well as sex toys for couples and romance products to help spice up and enhance your relationship. In addition to sex toys, I am very knowledgeable about sexuality, the sexual response cycle, and sexual anatomy, so can advise you on the best toys for specific body parts and how to use them for maximum benefit. I have tested numerous sensation and stimulating creams as well, so can advise on these type of products, if they work, how to use them, and what products to avoid. If you are wondering about a product comparison, I can give you my honest opinion on many varieties of a similar toy type, including pros and cons of each. In addition to sex toy questions, I do have a lot of knowledge about human sexuality and relationships as well and have answered questions about open relationships, erectile dysfunction, and other issues. If I don't have the answer myself, I will find it for you, as well as other resources to check out. My G+ Profile is here- https://plus.google.com/u/0/116207828728706505588?rel=author
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My main emphasis is writing sex educational review of sexuality products for the adult public via my blog and various other publications. I have also written articles and product descriptions for various sex toys shops including Sextoy.com, TabuToys, Pink Cherry, Babeland, Good Vibes, Vibrator.com, MyTickleSpot, as well as numerous specialty shops and manufacturers of quality sex toy products. Manufacturers include Lelo, We-Vibe, Cal Exotics, Pipedreams, Sportsheets, Ruby Glass, Happy Valley, Fun Factory, Vibratex, Liberator, Adam & Eve, Dr Laura Berman Intimate Basics, Big Teaze Toys, Tantus and more.