About Christa Expertise I am studying to become a "Loveologist". I can answer a variety of questions ranging from explaining about each category of toys, "what goes where & why", I can offer you information about how to make one toy compliment another, how to best care for your items. I do seminars and workshops for ladies and couples. I have been working in this field for 5 years now and I can respectfuly tackle whatever issue that is brought before me. No topics are taboo. As humans, we have the right to be informed on how to achieve our optimal sexual selves. And, in all honesty, if there is a subject I am unaware of, I will do the research to find the best answer. I can also give you specific names of toys and where I reccomend that you purchase them.
Experience My husband and I own X's & O's Lingerie and Gift Boutique.
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Our mission is to educate and empower ladies and couples to pursue a variety of avenues of sexual satisfaction via the help of relationship enhancements. For over 5 years, we have been fortunate to receive valuable feedback from our customers and those who have sought out our workshops. We have been considered the "Ultimate Romantic Shopping Experience" for couples in Love. Our "Blow Job Class" (yes, you heard correctly) help put a new fresh "twist" on the techniques and grips you may already be using. Humor creates a receptive environment and I heavily forcus on demystifying the male pleasure zones and anatomy. Please feel free to ask whatever questions that I may assist you with.
Publications North County Times Editorial (Easter 2006) Q & A with ME and a few readers from LOCALE MAGAZINE (Jan. 2007) Formerly a Talk Radio DeeJay on Radio Show called "Shut Up & Listen" on KKSM Palomar College Radio. X's & O's Lingerie was featured on the E!Networks show Dr. 90210...we did an informational workshop with "Violet",
Dr. Matlocks patient. Be sure to TUNE IN for the occassional re-run if you missed it! ( it originaly was filmed July 23,'07 aired on Oct. 29th,'07) We certainly showed Violet what she and her man had been missing!!!
Education/Credentials I am working toward my "Loveologist" Certification. I am also attending mainstream college courses about marriage, Family & Intimacy as well as Human Sexuality. My current GPA is 4.0! My hope is to further pursue this field by either the Radio or perhaps PodCasting as well as in future projects like writing books.
Past/Present Clients Out of respect for my customers and friends, I will allow for them to respond with their names if they wish to disclose them. The topics of sex and sexuality are very "ginger" and I recognise the HIPPA laws.
Question I have a big issue when it comes to sex. I'm 23, married and have never had an orgasm. I'm not sure what my problem is or what's wrong with me. When I have sex it doesn't feel good at all. I just can't stay focused. I guess I don't look forward to it from the beginning so I think about other things during sex. I've tried toys and lubrication but they haven't helped. Is there anything I can do to stimulate my sexual appetite?
Answer Hello Nakisha,
In order to better answer you, may I get a little more personal back ground on your past? I want to first off tell you that you are a normal woman. Many ladies have feelings like this at some point in their lives. What is "normal" for you may not be "normal" for another woman. So, let's not look at you as normal or abnormal. You are likely a wonderful lady who needs to find what is normal for herself. No one can assign a label to you, you must discover it for yourself. I may be completely incorrect, but you seem to have had perhaps a event or a situation that caused you to look at sex in a way that even the very idea of it makes you uncomfortable. This does not mean that you love your husband any less. You may not even remember the situation itself or it may have been an ongoing message that you received as a child. As women, many of us have difficulty "focusing" because we can't turn our brains OFF! (LOL) We think about random things that side track our libido and make us have to work hard rather than just enjoy. I am just as guilty of this as the next gal from time to time. If you think that there is anything additional that you can share with me so that I might know where you are coming from a little better, please respond with a private follow up. I am NOT a doctor, just a chick who has been through a lot myself and I MAY have a few clues for you. I appreciate your question and I hope you have a moment to reply. Best of luck to you either way and I truly hope that if you do not feel comfortable responding to me with additional info, that you will consider consulting with your primary health care physician...who can even offer you libido enhancing supplements via prescription to see if that does the trick. Let me know what you decide and Good Luck!!
