About Christa Expertise I am studying to become a "Loveologist". I can answer a variety of questions ranging from explaining about each category of toys, "what goes where & why", I can offer you information about how to make one toy compliment another, how to best care for your items. I do seminars and workshops for ladies and couples. I have been working in this field for 5 years now and I can respectfuly tackle whatever issue that is brought before me. No topics are taboo. As humans, we have the right to be informed on how to achieve our optimal sexual selves. And, in all honesty, if there is a subject I am unaware of, I will do the research to find the best answer. I can also give you specific names of toys and where I reccomend that you purchase them.
Experience My husband and I own X's & O's Lingerie and Gift Boutique.
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Our mission is to educate and empower ladies and couples to pursue a variety of avenues of sexual satisfaction via the help of relationship enhancements. For over 5 years, we have been fortunate to receive valuable feedback from our customers and those who have sought out our workshops. We have been considered the "Ultimate Romantic Shopping Experience" for couples in Love. Our "Blow Job Class" (yes, you heard correctly) help put a new fresh "twist" on the techniques and grips you may already be using. Humor creates a receptive environment and I heavily forcus on demystifying the male pleasure zones and anatomy. Please feel free to ask whatever questions that I may assist you with.
Publications North County Times Editorial (Easter 2006) Q & A with ME and a few readers from LOCALE MAGAZINE (Jan. 2007) Formerly a Talk Radio DeeJay on Radio Show called "Shut Up & Listen" on KKSM Palomar College Radio. X's & O's Lingerie was featured on the E!Networks show Dr. 90210...we did an informational workshop with "Violet",
Dr. Matlocks patient. Be sure to TUNE IN for the occassional re-run if you missed it! ( it originaly was filmed July 23,'07 aired on Oct. 29th,'07) We certainly showed Violet what she and her man had been missing!!!
Education/Credentials I am working toward my "Loveologist" Certification. I am also attending mainstream college courses about marriage, Family & Intimacy as well as Human Sexuality. My current GPA is 4.0! My hope is to further pursue this field by either the Radio or perhaps PodCasting as well as in future projects like writing books.
Past/Present Clients Out of respect for my customers and friends, I will allow for them to respond with their names if they wish to disclose them. The topics of sex and sexuality are very "ginger" and I recognise the HIPPA laws.
Sex Toys - Best Vibrator for Husband to enjoy using on/with wife?
Expert: Christa - 12/4/2008
Question Husband used to have higher sex drive & I didn't care, now mine is off the charts & he can not keep up with me, he is good for once or twice a week, I want every day. Luckily, he wants to please me, but he is having trouble keeping it up as much as I want, so I need to give him a break. I have never used a Vibrator and feel ashamed to use myself, I am interested in something that he can use with me , but I know nothing about these things, and if husbands do that, or enjoy doing that? I need advice. Thank you
Answer Hi there...
I am sorry for the delay. I answered you several days ago, but it seems that my reply didn't make it to you! I am sorry you had to wait!
I am very happy that you have asked this great question. Yes, many women use toys to help with improving satisfaction and help make up for the increased sexual appetite that they are experiencing. If you know anything about my Boutique or go to my website, my focus is on your marriage and the fun you can have while enhancing your relationship. Our toys are sold as "the dessert and side dishes" not as MEAL REPLACEMENT! I would prefer that you and your hubby check out my website www.xsandoslingerie.com together and search for a toy that looks like you would BOTH enjoy using. The idea is to have hubby use the toy ON you, so that he is always involved in pleasing you...and just when you think you can't take anymore...that is when he joins you and intercourse itself begins. I am glad that he is happy to do what it takes to make you happy. Yes, MANY MEN enjoy using toys on their wives. It can be highly erotic for them to what your response to this type of stimulation...all the while, they are STILL apart of everything!
By getting a toy, you can ADD it to your sex life and use it to bridge the gap you might be having due to your sexual appetites differing. Please, do not be ashamed of adding a toy into the mix. It is very healthy and natural to have the needs that you do. One type of enhancement that you two can use together is a vibrating erection ring or cock ring. These make the penis vibrate (the entire shaft) as well as vibrate the clitoris when it makes direct contact. Also, any kind of toy that can be used to penetrate and stimulate externally can benefit you. To be honest, your options are endless! If you would like specific recommendations...please respond to me and give me an idea of what looked interesting to you on my website. I can explain their functions a little better with greater detail if I get an idea of what looked good to you! Good Luck!
