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I have a couple of questions about sex toys. First one is I have got my wife a couple of sex toys to try to spice things up a little bit. I was wondering what the real good kinds are. I have got her a couple of vibs and a couple of bullets. I was wondering what other kinds she might like. I have to no all the sex toy buying cause she does not like doing it at all. How can you use different toys at the same time? I do know she uses a bullet while we do it and sometimes with a vib but what else?
My other question is are male sex toys really that good? Cause I buy her some and I would like one so I don't have to use my hand all the time. But I just figured they would not be that good for the price. I heard the "Fleshlight" is good but it cost a whole lot. Also I am kind of big down there like close to 9 inches and I didn't know if I would have to get a certain kind because of that or not. Just so you know if I would get one I would like a pussy kind or a blowjob kind because she does not like to do it anymore. Please just try to help me. Thanks
HI Stephen...Merry Christmas!
Well, there are a few things to respond to here so I will do my best!
If you go to my website ( www.xsandoslingerie.com ) you may find that she will be more willing to research toys with you in the privacy of her home. My site is made for married couples, so you will not have to worry about crepy images or vulgar advertisements and pop-ups. That should make her feel better about shopping for them.
It sounds to me like you have gotten a few good toys to get started. I would recommend 2 things to you to try...
the WeVibe is AMAZING!! It was MADE to do exactly what you are asking for...it is in the shape of a horse shoe. (well, ergonomically shaped for her vagina, inside and out) The smaller part is inserted into the vagina and it is designed to hug against her G-Spot. Then the outer, larger portion fits perfectly between her outer labia and just over her clitoris. It has 2 speeds, it requires NO batteries, recharges and is waterproof...QUIET...and just TOP NOTCH! It is also Phalate free so, NO ALLERGIES! Now...WHY is it so awesome? Well, it was designed to be INSIDE of HER DURING intercourse!! Yes, I said it!! It turns her Vagina into Disneyland!! talk about pleasure for BOTH of you. The contact of the WeVibe against you and inside of her....guaranteed EARTHQUAKES! And no one has to HOLD anything, there are no CORDS to get in the way. Just ENJOY eachother!!! It is a MUST SEE....Go to my website to check it out!
Otherwise...if you invest in a vibrating "cock-ring" you will be VERY HAPPY. They basically are made to vibrate the entire penis, worn at the base...and everytime you come into contact with her clitoris, then she is getting a GREAT charge! So, it is YOU...but YOU "Tim the ToolMan Taylor-IZED"...LOL. Just kidding...but, seriously...these can be amazing. I like the ones that have two bullets in them (the ring) so that you do not have to move it or adjust it to make clitoral contact. No matter WHAT position you are in...contact is inevitable.
I would skip on the Fleshlight. They are over priced...hard to clean. Well...the original ones that is. I am not sure if they fixed that by now. (I would HOPE) I think that your best bet is a Senso Beaded stroker. I sell them like crazy...I am picky about mens toys...they do not make enough of them in good enough quality to have me endorse it to my customers, etc. My hubby liked it because it is textured inside, like a vagina...the counter pressure squeezes nicely, and with a GREAT water based lube like Astroglide or System Jo...you are looking at MORE fun than you can handle! I HOPE that your wife would join in and use it on you...it is a LOT of FUN to hold onto and use. There are beads inside a second tunnel the stimulate the underside of the shaft. You can remove the beads and put a waterproof bullet INSIDE the bead-tunnel and NOW you have ALL of the BELLS and Whistles going off! I am unsure if I have the Senso Beaded tunnel on my website, but if you email me from there...I can send you a picture of it, the price and the shipping...IF you think it is something that would be a welcome change from your hand. (TRUST me when I say this...you'll be happy you did...and your wife will enjoy using it with you too!
Enjoy! I hope that this helped!! www.xsandoslingerie.com
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I am studying to become a "Loveologist". I can answer a variety of questions ranging from explaining about each category of toys, "what goes where & why", I can offer you information about how to make one toy compliment another, how to best care for your items. I do seminars and workshops for ladies and couples. I have been working in this field for 5 years now and I can respectfuly tackle whatever issue that is brought before me. No topics are taboo. As humans, we have the right to be informed on how to achieve our optimal sexual selves. And, in all honesty, if there is a subject I am unaware of, I will do the research to find the best answer. I can also give you specific names of toys and where I reccomend that you purchase them.
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