About Christa Expertise I am studying to become a "Loveologist". I can answer a variety of questions ranging from explaining about each category of toys, "what goes where & why", I can offer you information about how to make one toy compliment another, how to best care for your items. I do seminars and workshops for ladies and couples. I have been working in this field for 5 years now and I can respectfuly tackle whatever issue that is brought before me. No topics are taboo. As humans, we have the right to be informed on how to achieve our optimal sexual selves. And, in all honesty, if there is a subject I am unaware of, I will do the research to find the best answer. I can also give you specific names of toys and where I reccomend that you purchase them.
Experience My husband and I own X's & O's Lingerie and Gift Boutique.
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Our mission is to educate and empower ladies and couples to pursue a variety of avenues of sexual satisfaction via the help of relationship enhancements. For over 5 years, we have been fortunate to receive valuable feedback from our customers and those who have sought out our workshops. We have been considered the "Ultimate Romantic Shopping Experience" for couples in Love. Our "Blow Job Class" (yes, you heard correctly) help put a new fresh "twist" on the techniques and grips you may already be using. Humor creates a receptive environment and I heavily forcus on demystifying the male pleasure zones and anatomy. Please feel free to ask whatever questions that I may assist you with.
Publications North County Times Editorial (Easter 2006) Q & A with ME and a few readers from LOCALE MAGAZINE (Jan. 2007) Formerly a Talk Radio DeeJay on Radio Show called "Shut Up & Listen" on KKSM Palomar College Radio. X's & O's Lingerie was featured on the E!Networks show Dr. 90210...we did an informational workshop with "Violet",
Dr. Matlocks patient. Be sure to TUNE IN for the occassional re-run if you missed it! ( it originaly was filmed July 23,'07 aired on Oct. 29th,'07) We certainly showed Violet what she and her man had been missing!!!
Education/Credentials I am working toward my "Loveologist" Certification. I am also attending mainstream college courses about marriage, Family & Intimacy as well as Human Sexuality. My current GPA is 4.0! My hope is to further pursue this field by either the Radio or perhaps PodCasting as well as in future projects like writing books.
Past/Present Clients Out of respect for my customers and friends, I will allow for them to respond with their names if they wish to disclose them. The topics of sex and sexuality are very "ginger" and I recognise the HIPPA laws.
Question will using sex toys like vibrators make sex less pleasurable if used alot on a girl?
Answer I am sorry that you did not receive my first response to your question.
I truly believe that as in anything, it is best to practice common sense and have balance. At our boutique "X's & O's Lingerie" we remind our customers that we do not sell any item to be "meal replacement" rather considered "the dessert or side dish" of your sex play or relationship. Toys are not to be used during every encounter. It is quite possible, even probable that if a woman uses a certain toy to excess and over a period of time, the nerves that are apart of the arousal and even those for climax can become (for lack of a better word...)"dull" or less responsive because they tend to get used to the frequency of vibration being used. It is necessary to "mix it up" and use fingers or whatever to stimulate her throughout the entire process. Her nerves need to have a break. A heavy vibrator can make the nerves relax at a certain point and they take a nap rather than doing their job. Remind you, this is usually over an extended period of time and NOT EVERY female will react this way. Each human being will have a different reaction to the same exact stimulus (in a scientific world, that is).
I am glad you asked this great question. I am sorry you did not get my original response. Thanks for being so patient. I hope I can help you again in the future. Please go to my website if you have any Relationship Enhancement needs! www.xsandoslingerie.com
