About Christa Expertise I am studying to become a "Loveologist". I can answer a variety of questions ranging from explaining about each category of toys, "what goes where & why", I can offer you information about how to make one toy compliment another, how to best care for your items. I do seminars and workshops for ladies and couples. I have been working in this field for 5 years now and I can respectfuly tackle whatever issue that is brought before me. No topics are taboo. As humans, we have the right to be informed on how to achieve our optimal sexual selves. And, in all honesty, if there is a subject I am unaware of, I will do the research to find the best answer. I can also give you specific names of toys and where I reccomend that you purchase them.
Experience My husband and I own X's & O's Lingerie and Gift Boutique.
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Our mission is to educate and empower ladies and couples to pursue a variety of avenues of sexual satisfaction via the help of relationship enhancements. For over 5 years, we have been fortunate to receive valuable feedback from our customers and those who have sought out our workshops. We have been considered the "Ultimate Romantic Shopping Experience" for couples in Love. Our "Blow Job Class" (yes, you heard correctly) help put a new fresh "twist" on the techniques and grips you may already be using. Humor creates a receptive environment and I heavily forcus on demystifying the male pleasure zones and anatomy. Please feel free to ask whatever questions that I may assist you with.
Publications North County Times Editorial (Easter 2006) Q & A with ME and a few readers from LOCALE MAGAZINE (Jan. 2007) Formerly a Talk Radio DeeJay on Radio Show called "Shut Up & Listen" on KKSM Palomar College Radio. X's & O's Lingerie was featured on the E!Networks show Dr. 90210...we did an informational workshop with "Violet",
Dr. Matlocks patient. Be sure to TUNE IN for the occassional re-run if you missed it! ( it originaly was filmed July 23,'07 aired on Oct. 29th,'07) We certainly showed Violet what she and her man had been missing!!!
Education/Credentials I am working toward my "Loveologist" Certification. I am also attending mainstream college courses about marriage, Family & Intimacy as well as Human Sexuality. My current GPA is 4.0! My hope is to further pursue this field by either the Radio or perhaps PodCasting as well as in future projects like writing books.
Past/Present Clients Out of respect for my customers and friends, I will allow for them to respond with their names if they wish to disclose them. The topics of sex and sexuality are very "ginger" and I recognise the HIPPA laws.
Question While my husband and I have a good sex life,he works out of town a lot. He has encouraged me to masturbate something that I really have not done. I have bought a few Vibes, and I seem to like the rabbit ones best,but the only way I have ever been able to have a orgasm is if I'm on top during sex. SO I was wondering if there is a vibrator that will help to have a orgasm?
Answer Hi Melisa!
Ok...let me understand...you're looking for toy to help accomplish Orgasm, but one that is either STRONG enough or one that mocks a "female on top" penetration...Hmmmmm.
When you are on top, you mainly add to the depth and pressure of your stimulation...so I am thinking that you may need to try to mimic that position or try to vary the depths of and pressure that you apply when you use your "rabbit" styled toy. There are MANY excellent toys out there... including MANY variations of the "rabbit/bunny/jack rabbit, etc".
You may need to pay attention to how much clitoral rubbing occurs when you are on top with your hubby. The Mons Pubis (the Mound that is where your fatty tissue and pubic hair covers) has a few, what I call "sweet spots" and covers the clitoral region. If you orgasm from the (EXTERNAL) grinding motion versus the G-Spot (INTERNAL) contact...that will tell me a lot more as to what to recommend. I have a GREAT BOOK that you can read though.(super easy to read and understand) In fact there are a few written by Dr. Sadie that I am in LOVE with... until I write my own, that is! LOL
I can send them to you... they are well worth the money. Look up reviews on the books "ToyGasms" and "Tickle Her Fancy" these are all about toy usage and masturbation for the LADIES. She also writes "Tickle His Pickle" about Oral Pleasure for HIM (obviously) and "Ride'em CowGirl" is her newest book... all about positions. I can't remember if the books are on my site yet or not, but I can certainly take care of you.
Check out my website (www.xsandoslingerie.com) for toys and other ideas to help you...but don't forget to respond back to me with a little more info so I can search for a great toy to get you in Orgasm-Land while your dear sweet hubby is away on business. (One afterthought....try toy play or manual masturbation while on the PHONE WITH him!! Phone Sex is SUPER HOT and it will help you BOTH relieve tension! Hope to hear from you soon....GREAT question!
