About Katie D. Expertise I can answer general questions about toys and some medical related questions as well.
Experience I have 10 years experience in sex toys both personal and professional. I am currently a consultant for one of the largest adult toy companies in the US.
Education/Credentials Certified EMT. I also completed advanced classes in human sexuality
Question My husband and I are in our 50's due to several health problems (diabetes/high blood pressure) we have been celibate for 8 years. We are trying to get closer again with toys and mild porn, oral sex. He cannot get an erection. We are Catholics, is this a sin?
Answer Is it a sin? It is considered a sin to masturbate (play with sex toys). But strict Catholics shouldn't get have sex or children out of marriage or a divorce but that happens everyday. I believe this is a question that you should ask your priest, that is if you feel comfortable asking him. You should also speak to your doctor about introducing sexual acts back into your lives since you state that you both have high blood pressure, the simulation that you have lacked for so many years may make you blood pressure increase to very high levels.