About Christa Expertise I am studying to become a "Loveologist". I can answer a variety of questions ranging from explaining about each category of toys, "what goes where & why", I can offer you information about how to make one toy compliment another, how to best care for your items. I do seminars and workshops for ladies and couples. I have been working in this field for 5 years now and I can respectfuly tackle whatever issue that is brought before me. No topics are taboo. As humans, we have the right to be informed on how to achieve our optimal sexual selves. And, in all honesty, if there is a subject I am unaware of, I will do the research to find the best answer. I can also give you specific names of toys and where I reccomend that you purchase them.
Experience My husband and I own X's & O's Lingerie and Gift Boutique.
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Our mission is to educate and empower ladies and couples to pursue a variety of avenues of sexual satisfaction via the help of relationship enhancements. For over 5 years, we have been fortunate to receive valuable feedback from our customers and those who have sought out our workshops. We have been considered the "Ultimate Romantic Shopping Experience" for couples in Love. Our "Blow Job Class" (yes, you heard correctly) help put a new fresh "twist" on the techniques and grips you may already be using. Humor creates a receptive environment and I heavily forcus on demystifying the male pleasure zones and anatomy. Please feel free to ask whatever questions that I may assist you with.
Publications North County Times Editorial (Easter 2006) Q & A with ME and a few readers from LOCALE MAGAZINE (Jan. 2007) Formerly a Talk Radio DeeJay on Radio Show called "Shut Up & Listen" on KKSM Palomar College Radio. X's & O's Lingerie was featured on the E!Networks show Dr. 90210...we did an informational workshop with "Violet",
Dr. Matlocks patient. Be sure to TUNE IN for the occassional re-run if you missed it! ( it originaly was filmed July 23,'07 aired on Oct. 29th,'07) We certainly showed Violet what she and her man had been missing!!!
Education/Credentials I am working toward my "Loveologist" Certification. I am also attending mainstream college courses about marriage, Family & Intimacy as well as Human Sexuality. My current GPA is 4.0! My hope is to further pursue this field by either the Radio or perhaps PodCasting as well as in future projects like writing books.
Past/Present Clients Out of respect for my customers and friends, I will allow for them to respond with their names if they wish to disclose them. The topics of sex and sexuality are very "ginger" and I recognise the HIPPA laws.
My name is mark a man in his 20s from jersey that is having problems & desperatly need some assistance. I recently bought my girlfriend her first vibrator ,because she was too embarassed to by one herself. So I bought her a Rabbit (i was worried intially because it was a little bigger than I am) I was extremly excited to use it with her & for her to have her first orgasm. i know its hard to give women orgasms vaginally threw sex ,and I am not a selfish lover. I do everything for my woman & I mean anything. she still isn't able to acheive a orgasm without me there ,but now we have to use the vibrator everytime we have sex. I'm starting to hate the damn thing. it would be fine if she used it & was welling to have sex after but she has become boring in bed. she gets off & is done after that. what the fuck. I feel that there is something that I'm not doing ,but I know that I am no competition for a Rabbit. I have gotten to the point where I can't even have a orgasm during sex. this is not usual for men! Please help.
Answer Hi Mark.
Ok, take a deep breath. I am totally hearing you and the frustration you must be feeling. "The rabbit" comes in a million variations just so you know, so I am going to address it as the rabbit that both penetrates and stimulates clitoraly. I personally would give that toy a rest and (don't freak out) go buy a different style. Just a SIMPLE BULLET or if you go to my website www.xsandoslingerie.com and check out the We-Vibe. Only 29% of women report being able to climax during intercourse. So that puts your gal in with the 71% of us that have to work at it MUCH HARDER but can only get there with clitoral stimulation. So the bullet would be held by her on or nearby her clitoris during penetration....HOWEVER...I recommend that you begin with having sex with NO assistance until you are getting closer to climax yourself...THEN ADD the bullet to help her get there. You might finish 1st but that is better than not finishing at all. She may finish before you but it will teach her body to do it during intercourse and she will be there enjoying herself while you catch up (but do your best to catch up to her quickly so that she isn't "spent")
The We-Vibe is worn inside of her and over the clit at the same time. So a BIG HUG to the G-Spot and Clit at the same time. AND the best part for you is the clitoral stimulation is happening DURING penetration AND it causes her to vibrate internally so that is GREAT for BOTH of YOU!!
Let me know if there is any other way I can help. Remember Toys are supposed to be "helpers" or side dishes NOT MEAL REPLACEMENT. If you are feeling jealous or replaced...the toy has to GO. BUT that means that you will be back to square ONE because it isn't her CHOICE to not be able to orgasm during intercourse.
