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I need help finding a sex toy, that haves great feeling, thats very firm & soft. Right now im steady hearing from friends that the "Fleshlight" is the best, but i think its the "Brea Lynn/Lacie Heart's Pussy Stroker" cause im addicted to it, LOL :) So if you could help me, please let me know what your advice is? Cause i cant think or say that a Pussy Stroker is better than a Fleshlight, or a Fleshlight is better than a Pussy Stroker if i havent tried them, LOL :)

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Well, the difference between these toys is this..
The "pussy stroker" is made from the generic cyber skin that most toys are made with.  It doesn't look like it has the same kind of suction as the fleshlight has.
The Fleshlight is made with its own brand of cyber skin.  This "skin" is called "super skin" and is the only toy on the market today that has it.  It is the closest to the real thing you can find.  The Fleshlight also has a suction to it, one end has a lid.  This lid, when closed tight has a great suction, otherwise you can open one end up, stick a bullet vibe, and this "super skin" carries the vibrations really nicely.  also, it is much easier to use a Fleshlight with the way it is designed.  The only drawback is cleaning the toy.  Super skin is quite porous and does hold bacteria if not cleaned properly.  This could be the same from the Pussy stroker, but I am not too familiar with that one.  Just make sure that when you are cleaning it you use only water and you give it a nice scrub, let it fully dry and then put the insert back into the case before its next use.
hope this helped.  oh, and don't forget the lube! Make sure you use a non-silicone lube for both these toys since silicone lube ruins silicone toys.

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If you have questions about what kind of sex toys might be best for you, the proper way to wash/clean your toys, what kind of lubes are okay to use for certain kinds of toys, what kind of lubes are skin irritants and different kinds of toys made of different materials (such as silicone, elastomer, rubber, glass, plastic, jelly, wood, stainless steel, etc.) and what the different materials might offer you. If you have questions about safe sex including (but not limited to): latex and non-latex condoms, dental dams and gloves.. Then I've got the answers you're looking for. I am also knowledgable in gender play related products used for sex or everyday life which include a wide variety of dildos, harnesses and soft packs.

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