AboutMaddix Expertise If you have questions about what kind of sex toys might be best for you, the proper way to wash/clean your toys, what kind of lubes are okay to use for certain kinds of toys, what kind of lubes are skin irritants and different kinds of toys made of different materials (such as silicone, elastomer, rubber, glass, plastic, jelly, wood, stainless steel, etc.) and what the different materials might offer you. If you have questions about safe sex including (but not limited to): latex and non-latex condoms, dental dams and gloves.. Then I've got the answers you're looking for. I am also knowledgable in gender play related products used for sex or everyday life which include a wide variety of dildos, harnesses and soft packs.
Experience I work for a local sex positive business in California. www.babeland.com
Organizations Many FTM and trans-friendly online forums, groups, clubs and websites.
Question I always pee before sex. Lately have been introduced to vibrators, but everytime I use one, I leave a massive wet spot behind which is very embarassing. This only happens with vibrators. Is it pee, if not what is it? Is there any kind of sex toy I can use where I won't get that result?
Answer Many women expel fluid from their vaginas as a result of G-spot stimulation. This is commonly referred to as "female ejaculation", and is perfectly normal, despite the fear many women harbor that female ejaculate is urine, which it is not. Female ejaculate comes out of the Skene's glands and is similar to the prostatic fluid in men.
It sounds to me as if you might be female ejaculating but lets make sure. Here are some questions you should answer for yourself. What color is it if any? (Ejaculate is generally clear but may be somewhat milky) Does it smell like urine? You said you urinate before sex so I am assuming you don't feel the need to urinate during. Do you know if you are squirting or can you feel it come out in small amounts? Are you normally excessively wet? I ask these because if it is female ejaculation, its completely normal in fact there are so many female bodied people who strive to learn how to female ejaculate. There are books and articles and even pornography to help teach people how.
I know it can be a scary thing, but just remember you are probably just having intense orgasms, some many people wish they had. I recommend laying down a towel beforehand. Though, if you still want to rid yourself of this then I suggest you rid yourself of the toys all together.
