About Anisa Expertise I was a single parent for many years and was able to graduate college, hold a job and buy my own home. I can answer any questions you might have about finances, child care or just parenting in general.
Experience I have personal experience and have also worked with single mothers through internships and volunteer programs.
Education/Credentials BS Family Sciences, BA Social Psychology
Question Hi Anisa
Been single parent for over 2 years now. I've met a guy i really like and he likes me. As a woman. when and how is the right way to introduce him to my son? we are so fresh and its all new and exciting together but i am so freaked out about him coming into our unity of me and my son. i think its kinda freaking him out too..... please if you have any good advice i will gladly take it on.
Thank you!
Answer Hi Romy,
Meeting the child can be almost as nerve-wracking as meeting the parents! You new guy is probably freaking out only because he wants to make the right first impression on your son. There never really is a perfect time to introduce the two; you will know when it feels right. Depending on how old your son is, it would be wise to first tell your son about your guy ahead of time that way it is not a total shock when they do meet. When you are ready to introduce them, make sure it is in a comfortable environment for your son (again, his age determines 'where' is comfortable). It is a good idea to let your son know your new guy is not replacing his biological father, and also let your new guy know that you are not looking for a replacement father for your son. Your guy needs to be aware of the fact that your son does come first and that he is important enough that you want to him to be a part of both your lives.
