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7 year old son10/5/2010
  Q: I am a 40 years old single dad in Nigeria and I have 7 years old son. I live alone and he lives with ...
  A: As far as monitoring him from abroad, the best thing you can do is to call him at least once a week ...
Single Parenting Advice8/12/2010
  Q: This is a hypothetical situation. A single parent, a father, is raising his pre-teenage girl. She ...
  A: Its not a good idea to allow a pre-teen to practice using tampons before her period starts. Tampons ...
Single mom needs help making a decision.7/31/2010
  Q: I am a single mom with two little girls. I had a job and a rental car and just moved into my new ...
  A: Oh Lakeshia, you're welcome, and I'm glad I was here to offer some form of mental comfort. I know ...
Single mom needs help making a decision.7/31/2010
  Q: I am a single mom with two little girls. I had a job and a rental car and just moved into my new ...
  A: I've been in your situation more times than I want to count. Having to move, losing transportation, ...
Raising my daughter7/27/2010
  Q: )) I have a little girl who is turning 5 years next month, her father terminated his rights when she ...
  A: Wow Evet, I'm sorry to hear about all of this, but as you know, this is an emotionally unhealthy ...
Raising my daughter7/20/2010
  Q: )) I have a little girl who is turning 5 years next month, her father terminated his rights when she ...
  A: This situation doesn't sound good for your daughter or you. This man sounds controlling, and this ...
should we be together just because we are having a baby together?6/30/2010
  Q: im almost 3 months along and the baby's father is my ex, and we do still care about each other, i ...
  A: I understand your frustrations in trying to figure out what will be best for you and your baby. And ...
single parent feeling lost5/31/2010
  Q: I'm a single mum with an eleven year old boy.I look youg and get a lot of male attention .That , ...
  A: I'm sorry to hear about all you're feeling right now, but we have to get you out of this rut.:-) I ...
control damage5/14/2010
  Q: I'm asingle parent of a 4 year old boy. Living at my parent's. I've noticed that my son has ben ...
  A: Don't worry too much over this because by doing so, you'll cause him to get worse. Sometimes we ...
My unborn child.5/10/2010
  Q: My little girl is expected August 10th 2010. I am not with the father of my child. I am only 18 ...
  A: I apologize for the delay. I have been offline for awhile working on a company website. But I got ...
im 19 i have a 27 year old Crazy baby Mother5/4/2010
  Q: .i am in the process of having a child with my ex girlfriend me and her have had a long history of ...
  A: I'm so sorry to hear about all of this drama that you're dealing with in this ex-relationship. And ...
Absent/Inconsistent Father & "saying Daddy"4/3/2010
  Q: Here are the facts: I'm a single mother. My daughter is just over two years old. Her father was ...
  A: You are definitely very intelligent and make a whole lot of sense in your perception of this ...
17 yr old soon-to-be mom3/28/2010
  Q: i'm Jamie. Okay, so, i'm 5 months pregnant, due at the end of July. I'm excited, and have FULL ...
  A: I'm so sorry for just getting back to you. I have been working on a major project and haven't been ...
Joint Legal Custody3/20/2010
  Q: My ex-husband and I have joint legal custody of our ten year old son. He has primary physical care ...
  A: I apologize for all you're dealing with. But I'm going to make this short and sweet. Because there ...
My toddler and new man10/20/2009
  Q: I have been liveing with my boyfriend for 8 months now and he has recently shared with me that he ...
  A: Its great that your boyfriend wants his own "quality time" with your daughter to bond. But under ...
dolls8/1/2009
  Q: my lil girl jessica is 12 and still plays mums and babies with a life size doll by herself in her ...
  A: YES, it's absolutely okay that Jessica still likes to play with dolls! She will outgrow them in her ...
Daughter's Relationship with Father7/26/2009
  Q: I have a 23 year-old daughter who is still at home. She has never had any significant relationship ...
  A: You are doing the right thing by allowing your daughter to go and see her father. By her being an ...
relationship7/20/2009
  Q: I'm at my wits end with my relationship with my daughters father. He would rather be a bachelor ...
  A: I'm sorry to hear about your situation but at the same time, I can understand it all too well. :-) ...
Older kids responsibility to mother7/18/2009
  Q: I am a single parent having raised a son, age 31 and a daughter, age 27. My son was a result of ...
  A: I am so sorry to hear about your situation. At this point in your life, you should be doing things ...
child visitation6/13/2009
  Q: I'm in the process of a divorce. We have an 8 month old baby. After only being married 7 months we ...
  A: I can truly understand your concerns. However, your baby is 8 months old right now. I'm not sure ...
my teen daughter and boyfriend don't get along6/10/2009
  Q: I am at a loss as to what to do....my 14 year old daughter and my boyfriend of 2 years don't get ...
  A: What you are experiencing is not uncommon. I'm not sure if you had recently divorced or separated ...
14 yr daughter5/31/2009
  Q: I left my verbally abusive husband last year after 23 yrs together.... now I am truly in love but ...
  A: I'm sorry to hear about your situation with your daughter. It's become apparent that she's taken on ...
Single Mom with a 5 year old son and a new boyfriend5/15/2009
  Q: I'm a single mom. I've been dating for my boyfriend for almost 9 months. We are planning a vacation ...
  A: What a great question! And "no" it's not too soon to go on a family vacation. 9 months is ...
Dating a single mom with a pacemaker( long, sry!hope u can handle it)4/4/2009
  Q: Me, Im 27, and I currently met someone i like whose a single mom. Shes the same age.Shes very ...
  A: Brandon, Yeah that's a good way to put it too. :-) (put it in the crockpot instead of the ...
Dating a single mom with a pacemaker( long, sry!hope u can handle it)4/4/2009
  Q: Me, Im 27, and I currently met someone i like whose a single mom. Shes the same age.Shes very ...
  A: What a sweet story!:-) I can feel your sincerity about the way you feel towards the young lady in ...
fathers rights and getting custody of my son3/24/2009
  Q: I have a 2 and a half year old son...his mother and I were never married and we broke up before my ...
  A: Boy, I'm sure this is a very frustrating situation for you to deal with right now, and I can feel ...

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I can answer questions pertaining to: dating, raising babies & teens, job-related, unemployment, business opportunities, engagement, step-family issues, and other family relationships. I can also answer questions pertaining to Christian living in these particular areas. I cannot answer questions pertaining to homosexuality.

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18 years as a single parent. My children are now 19, 9, 2, and 17 months. I have been married for almost 2 years, and have experience with blended families as well. I worked for Corporate America for 15 years before retiring to being a stay-at-home mom since 2008. I also have formed a business, so I know the challenges that comes with parenting, balancing a relationship and starting a business simultaneously.

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Atlanta Metro Black Chamber of Commerce

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Study of Psychology and Mental Sciences

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