AboutAmanda Gamble Expertise I will answer any etiquette question you`d care to ask!
I will be happy to give friendly non-judgmental advice on any situation.
If your question is rude,incoherent or demands I confirm your "victim" story,
I reserve the right to refuse to answer. Life is too short.
Certain cultures and customs are not part of my personal
experience,but I will research to get the needed answer.
Experience I have been writing a daily etiquette advice column for 6 years.
I have taught as well as given lectures on the subject.
Expert: Amanda Gamble Date: 7/3/2008 Subject: how to address a sympathy card
Question I worked with a gentleman who passed away and would like to send a card to his wife. Should I write Mrs. John Doe or Mrs. Jane Doe or does it really matter.
Answer Dear Mary,
She properly remains Mrs John Doe until she remarries or dies.
It does matter (although the expression of sympathy is much more
important) how you address the envelope. "Mrs. Jane Doe" is never
correct. It can be used for a divorced woman but always indicates
someone of inferior upbringing.
Best regards,
Amanda Gamble
