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My step-children walk in my home and do not acknowledge me, not a simple hello. They say hello to their mother enthusiastically. I think that the children, 8 and 10 YO boys, should say hello to me and acknowledge my existence. I find this rude and disrespectful. I have spoken to their mother and she says that she has always greeted them first and that is why they don't say hello.
Dear Michael,
I agree with you - your step-children should acknowledge you. I can see why they would want to greet their mother first but this should be an excuse for them to then forget about you. I suggest you have a serious word with your wife about this and if the problem persists you simply refuse to acknowledge the children or do anything for them until they have greeted you properly.
I hope this helps,
William Hanson.
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William Hanson
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Domestic etiquette, international protocol, self-presentation/grooming, social manners, foreign customs, child etiquette, table manners.
Experience
I am regularly on television, radio and international media commenting on modern manners; I teach for international protocol and hospitality consultants 'The English Manner' (www.theenglishmanner.com), as well as instructing on my own. My youth gives me a fresh, contemporary perspective on the traditional, meaning my advice is current and up-to-date.
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PRINT: Tatler, Sunday Telegraph, Waitrose Food Illustrated, The Observer, Practical Parenting, Aberdeen Press & Journal, Classic FM Magazine, Manchester Evening News, Gala (France), AMICA (Germany), SABADO (Portugal), InStyle (Germany), Somerset Life.
TV: BBC The One Show, BBC Sunday Life, Big Brother UK (as a commentator, not a housemate!), Channel M, Ladette to Lady, BBC The Big Questions.
RADIO: BBC Radio 5 Live, LBC 97.3FM, BBC Radio Scotland, BBC Radio Essex, BBC Radio Coventry, XFM Manchester ...for a current and full list, please see my website (www.williamhanson.co.uk)
Education/Credentials
Educated at Clifton College, Bristol, UK for 12 years. 4 A-Levels: English Literature, English Language, Theology, History.
Trained in voice at the world-renowned Bristol Old Vic Theatre School, UK.
Now studying for a BA (Hons) Degree at the University of Manchester, UK, in English Language.
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Client confidentiality is key in my business, but I have worked with worldwide brands, schools and charitable organisations, private households and individuals alike.
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