AboutJay Remer Expertise I am happy to answer any questions about social or corporate etiquette as well as questions regarding international protocol. It is important to practice civility. It is contagious.
Experience I am certified by the Protocol School of Washington as a consultant for corporate etiquette and international protocol. I have been entertaining and giving advise on entertaining for over 40 years.
Publications Weekly column in Telegraph Journal
Education/Credentials Graduate of Protocol School of Washington
Question My boyfriend of four months has asked me out for dinner with his family for his birthday. As far as I know, his parents are paying for everyone, but I am a little unsure as to whether or not I should offer to pay for myself. What's the proper etiquette in this situation?
Answer Dear Christine,
Thanks for asking this great question. If your boyfriend invited you out to dinner, he must pay. Do not even offer. What you might do which would be extremely generous would be to offer to buy a bottle of wine (if they drink). That would be acceptable and much appreciated, but certainly not necessary. I hope this helps. Jay
