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About Cynthia Lett
Expertise
Proper manners with friends,family,colleagues,neighbors and everyone else you know.

Experience
I have been an etiquette expert teaching and consulting on the subject worldwide since 1983. I started and run the International Society of Protocol & Etiquette Professionals and am considered a leader in the field. I edited "Etiquette for Dummies" and have recently written "Lett's Talk - Everyday Etiquette Dilemmas and What to Do about Them". I taught the Business Protocol class to Master's level students at the George Washington University, Washington, DC. Chief of Protocol for MCI Telecommunications.

Organizations
International Society of Protocol & Etiquette Professionals, ASTD, PCMA, National Speakers Association

Publications
I have been quoted over 700 times in the past 5 years worldwide. Publications include Wall Street Journal, Washington Post, Washington Times, NY Times, Washington Business Journal, USA Today, Associated Press, London Times, Newsweek Japan edition, Newsweek US edition and many many more.

Education/Credentials
I am a Certified Etiquette Professional (CEP) and Certified Protocol Professional (CPP) earned by examination through ISPEP. I have a Master's degree in hospitality law and undergrad degrees in Restaurant & Hotel Management and Public Relations/Interpersonal Communications from Purdue University.

Awards and Honors
Who's Who Worldwide,Who's Who of American Women, Distinguished Darden Professor (Purdue University).

Past/Present Clients
World Bank, United Nations,US Dept. of State, US. Dept. of the Army, Pentagon, Barclays Global Investors,Accenture,AT&T,Bank of America,American Association of Clinical Pharmacies,Ritz Carlton Hotels, Hilton Hotels, Marriott Hotels,Starwood Hotels,and many more.

 
   

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Social Etiquette and Good Manners - What card to send a terminally ill colleague?


Expert: Cynthia Lett - 6/22/2009

Question
Hi.  A work colleague has recently been diagnosed with Lukemia.  She has been off work for a couple of weeks, only popping in on the odd day.  We recently found out that they are still trying to get her medication levels right and as a consequence she was admitted to hospital.  Is it appropriate to send a gift?  What sort of card would you send? A get well soon card may upset her as she is terminal and will never 'get better'.

Answer
Dear Rose:
A card that expresses your appreciation of her situation and encourages her to keep up her spirits would be appropriate.  Any care of encouragement is good.  If she will be in the hospital or home for more than three days, flowers or a plant or maybe DVDs of comedy would brighten her spirits.


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