AboutSuzanne Zazulak Pedro Expertise Main discourse in all aspects of social, corporate, international diplomacy and children's etiquette and protocol. Suzanne is certified in corporate and children's etiquette, as well as, certification in professional coaching for executive, leadership and personal achievement.
Experience As a Behavior Shaping Specialist and Certified Protocol and Etiquette Consultant, Suzanne has pioneered the art of social finesse with valid psychological tenets to provide her clients with an unique approach to instruction in etiquette --Avant Garde Etiquette.
Research data shows that 15% of employment and corporate success is due to intelligence or training,while the other 85% is dealing with people successfully. Conversley,the essence of dealing with people succssfully is through exceptional communication skills.
Therefore, being adapt at non-verbal communication while practising the art of etiquette is rapid power-tool in establishing rapport and inducing compliance for success.
Target Success Seminars include:
The Psychology of the First Impression,
Oculesics: Keep YOur Eyes on the Prize,
Isopraxism: Mirroring for Love and Profit,
Spatial Anchoring: The Psychology of Body Placement
Disarming Your Opponent by his Handshake
What Your Dining Manners Reveal about Your Partner's Personality
Organizations ISPEP International Society of Protocol and Etiquette Professionals
IAPC International Association Professional Consultants
IAC International Association of Coaches
NWU National Writer's Union
ABA American Bar Association Associate Member
Publications "Executive Etiquette Power" co-authored and pusblished by Power Dynamics Publising to be release September 2009.
Montly Etiquette Columnist for several publications, as well as ezineexperauthor.com with downloads for on-line journals. Also, Suzanne has a series of children's international travel etiquette books slated for completion 2010.
Education/Credentials Bachelor of Arts in Psychology
Certified Corporate and Children's Etiquette and Protocol
Certified Professional Coach (CPC)
Certified Paralegal
Graduate Studies in Forensics, law
Awards and Honors Appointed as Chief Officer of Protocol for her town.
Cambridge Who's Who Among Business Professionals, Experts & Entrepeneurs Lifetime Member
USA Honor Society
Selected in 2004, as Queen Omega XVIII for Mardi Gras.
Past/Present Clients Since individual/corporate programs are designed for areas of deficiencies, their confidence is upheld in the stictest sense of confidentiality.
She has formed a non-profit organization, BeePoised, Inc., to reach-out and teach the children and adults who are not at an advantage to learn life social skills such as dining manners and job interviewing techniques.
Question Is it proper to have a second wife buried and included on the gravestone of her husband when the first wife was estranged from the family that has purchased the plot & gravestone. The first wife proceeded the husband in death & was cremated & ashes were scattered.
Answer Dear Juliete:
Thank you for your inquiry in gravestone etiquette. Your question not only raises social implications, but legal. If you do not mind, I need more clarification, such as: Did the husband purchase the plot with the 1st wife? Is it a community property state(wife 1 and husband)? What were the intentions of the first wife? Did she(1st wife) wish to be buried with her husband? And finally, I think most importantly did the first wife will the plotto the husband? In other words, how did he acquire this plot?
If the intentions of the wife were for the husband to be buried with her, then he has a percentage or a right to allow who is buried there.
However, since the first wife's remains has been scattered, does her name appear on the tombstone?
If her name does appear on the tombstone even though he has a right, it might seem , "seem" a bit odd. What would he place on the tombstone, wife one, leaving behind husband so and so, then wife two, leaving behind same husband so and so? It might to others seem tasteless, however, if the second wife has no other place available to her and it is a question of financial resources, who are we to judge where she is laid to rest? Secondly, are the first wife family members resisting?
If you wish to have a follow-up with the additional information, I will be glad to respond. I hope this has some clarification in this seemingly legal and social issue.
