AboutAmanda Gamble Expertise I will answer any etiquette question you`d care to ask!
I will be happy to give friendly non-judgmental advice on any situation.
If your question is rude,incoherent or demands I confirm your "victim" story,
I reserve the right to refuse to answer. Life is too short.
Certain cultures and customs are not part of my personal
experience,but I will research to get the needed answer.
Time specific questions may or may not get answered by your deadline.
Experience I have been writing a daily etiquette advice column for 8 years.
I have taught as well as given lectures on the subject.
Question My daughter and her finance in the Navy were recently married in a simple ceremony for the immediate family only due to his orders to report to Japan. This was unexpected. We would like to hold a personal shower for her before she leaves but really she cannot take much with her they will have no home for a while. Someone suggested guests be asked to share recipes and then make it a Cash Shower? It sounded really tacky, but money for needed items once she gets there would be a God send...can you help us with this?
Answer Dear Mrs. Drager,
No,you cannot make it a "cash shower". If you want to
spread the word quietly that nothing much can be taken
over to Japan that might do the trick. I would go ahead
and ask for the recipes though!
Best regards,
Amanda Gamble
