Social Etiquette and Good Manners/Brunch Etiquette

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my boss is having a brunch at his home on Sunday....Although he hasn't asked us to bring anything I would like to bring something but I'm not sure what.

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Dear Robyn,

Arriving with a tasteful host/hostess gift is sure to be appreciated. I would advise against bringing food that needs to be served immediately. You boss (or his wife) have prepared a brunch and you don't know what will be a good complement.

I would suggest a small gift basket filled with gourmet coffees, jams or mustards. This is something most people enjoy and can be consumed at a later time.

Another suggestion is flowers. However, if you are going to arrive with flowers in hand, make sure they are already in a vase. Otherwise, your host must go searching for one.

Other than that, it is most important for you to show up with a smile and a willingness to participate in lively conversation!

Enjoy the brunch.   

Robin

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Robin Gifford

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My passion is seeing people interact comfortably in all situations. Etiquette is so misrepresented. I would love to chat about all things civil...or not! I will answer any question about social or business etiquette. Specifically, questions pertaining to dining out, dining for business, interviewing, hosting obligations, houseguests, office gift giving, introductions, technology etiquette...you name it! I love entertaining questions about global etiquette as well.

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My mother taught me most of what I know. She taught etiquette at her finishing school for over 20 years. I taught individuals how to take on the roles of host and guest at New York's finest parties. I lived and worked in Tokyo and Paris, so understand the important differences in cultural etiquette. I now coach people how to be comfortable in any business or social situation. Plus, I just like reading the historical background of good manners.

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Rotary International Association of Business Communicators Association of Fundraising Professionals Church

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20 years experience in personal development, brand/marketing strategy, communications and business and social etiquette training. B.A. in Political Science from Columbia University, New York. The Protocol School of Palm Beach, seminars.

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