AboutAmanda Gamble Expertise I will answer any etiquette question you`d care to ask!
I will be happy to give friendly non-judgmental advice on any situation.
If your question is rude,incoherent or demands I confirm your "victim" story,
I reserve the right to refuse to answer. Life is too short.
Certain cultures and customs are not part of my personal
experience,but I will research to get the needed answer.
Time specific questions may or may not get answered by your deadline.
Experience I have been writing a daily etiquette advice column for 8 years.
I have taught as well as given lectures on the subject.
Question Madam,
Am Avi Nash from India. Due to multi-cultural, multi-ethnical background, we follow a set of etiquettes that are appreciated in that region. But beyond the region's boundary, it takes some changes. Our gestures are often misinterpreted and misread. How is a person to behave without being misread ?
Example, Would it be strange to call a total stranger for a cup of tea, on the first meeting ? (Am trying to be strictly friendly and no strings attached )
Answer Dear Avi Nash,
How much of a stranger are we talking about?
Is this someone that you see across a crowded room
or on a bus that you want to get to know? Or is the
connection a little less remote?
Either way,it should be clear enough from your
tone and manner what the intent behind your invitation
is. Friendly and relaxed doesn't send the wrong message
unlessthe other person is REALLY obtuse.
Best regards,
Amanda Gamble
