Expert: Amanda Gamble - 10/7/2004

Question
Madam,
Am Avi Nash from India. Due to multi-cultural, multi-ethnical background, we follow a set of etiquettes that are appreciated in that region. But beyond the region's boundary, it takes some changes. Our gestures are often misinterpreted and misread. How is a person to behave without being misread ?
Example, Would it be strange to call a total stranger for a cup of tea, on the first meeting ? (Am trying to be strictly friendly and no strings attached )

Answer
Dear Avi Nash,
    How much of a stranger are we talking about?
Is this someone that you see across a crowded room
or on a bus that you want to get to know? Or is the
connection a little less remote?
     Either way,it should be clear enough from your
tone and manner what the intent behind your invitation
is. Friendly and relaxed doesn't send the wrong message
unlessthe other person is REALLY obtuse.
                                   Best regards,
                                     Amanda Gamble