Expert: Amanda Gamble - 8/4/2006

Question
Dear Amanda,
My husband & I have received the most formal wedding invitation we have ever seen...it is
extremely large in size, has true engraving, calligraphy, unbelievable cotton paper, etc. The invitation is truly worthy of royalty. The wedding is being given by a socially prominent family from Mexico City and is being held at the Cathedral in Cuernavaca, Mexico and being presided over by the Bishop. A phenominal reception will follow. The wedding is Oct. 7 at Noon. The invitation specifies "Formal" dress. What exactly does that require under these circumstances. I am especially uncertain regarding my husband's attire. I had assumed the wedding was an evening affair & that he would wear his tuxedo. Does he need a grey "Morning Coat" as in the U.K.? I am at a loss for the Mexican custom. Of course, I would be grateful for suggestions regarding my attire also. Many thanks in advance for your thoughtful response.
Anne-marie

Answer
Dear Anne-Marie,
 Formal for daytime means a short dress or suit,hats and
gloves are optional,but in this case,I'd wear them. If it
were evening,a full length skirt or gown would be worn.
(Obviously,try to avoid white or all black..)
 For your husband,formal in the daytime means a dark suit
and tie. In the evening it would be a tuxedo.
                                          Best regards,
                                            Amanda Gamble