Spanish Language/pareja


if someone says "quiero que eres mi pareja y estamos muy divertido" is it different then saying "quiero que estas mo pareja....."?  Also does "pareja" mean partner for the game or partner as in significant other?

Hi Julie!

I just happened to be checking my email and saw your question arrive, so I'll answer quickly before I head to work!

The grammar of the statement is a bit off, as after "quiero que" you need to use the subjunctive, so "quiero que seas mi pareja" would be more grammatically correct.  I would use "ser" and not "estar" with that statement, so it's okay in that sense.  

The "estamos muy divertida" doesn't make sense... If you want to say "we'll have fun" you could say "y que lo pasemos bien"  or "y será divertido."  

Pareja could mean partner in a game or activity or significant other... it just depends on the context.

Hope that helps.



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I can answer questions about the Spanish language itself, as I studied Spanish academically and also spent a significant amount of time living in Chile (as a teacher of English). I can also help with issues of translation, and with interpreting slang or other cultural anecdotes. As an experienced teacher, of both EFL and Spanish, I can answer questions as well about teaching, classroom practice, and the use of technology.


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