AllExperts > Staying a Virgin 
Search      
Staying a Virgin
Volunteer
Answers to thousands of questions
 Home · More Staying a Virgin Questions · Question Library  · Free Encyclopedia ·
More Staying a Virgin Answers
Question Library

Ask a question about Staying a Virgin
Volunteer
Experts of the Month
Expert Login

Awards

About Us
Tell friends
Link to Us
Disclaimer

 
 
 
About Joel Kimball
(Top Expert on this page)

Expertise
I'm good at listening, even better at giving advice.

Virginity does matter! And no sex before marriage is possible, regardless of what your friends, family, or (worst of all) society tell you. It's a choice, like any thing else in life. Not an easy one, so that's why I'm here to help.

I'm happy to answer your questions:
- WHY you should stay a virgin until marriage
- HOW you can stay a virgin until marriage
- HOW to deal with boy or girl friends pushing you to engage in sex
- HOW to deal with friends who push you to engage in sex
- HOW to deal with a family who won't support you in your choice of abstinence

Experience
If you want to know about some thing, ask an expert, right? If you're climbing a steep and dangerous mountain, who would you ask for advice about where to go? Another climber that's no further up than you, and is struggling? Or the fella who's been all the way to the top, and lived to tell about it?

The latter is me.

As to sex before marriage, "Been there, HAVEN'T done that".

In short, I made it to marriage with out having sex, in spite of many temptations, so any one can - including you.

Organizations
Eagle Scout - Boy Scouts of America
Fire Fighter - Whitman County Fire District 1 - Washington State

Education/Credentials
I have several years experience owning and managing two businesses, an Internet Access Provider (www.PalouseNet.com) and a Commercial Art Studio (www.KimballMedia.com). Every day I'm forced to make difficult decisions that will affect my life for years to come - just like the decision to not have sex before marriage will affect you.

Past/Present Clients
See my web sites.

   

You are here:  Experts > Teens > Teen Advice > Staying a Virgin

SubjectDate AskedExpert

virgin11/17/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: When some one doesn't want others to know they are a virgin, are they ashamed?
  A: You question is missing some thing, doesn't quite make sense. Did you mean "Why are they ashamed"? ...
virgin11/17/2009sarah
  Q: When some one doesn't want others to know they are a virgin, are they ashamed?
  A: I would imagine that this would be the case...that perhaps they are wishing that they had remained ...
can you lose your virginity this way?11/17/2009Kate
  Q: Im 17 my girlfriend is 20 and I am still a virgin, and I want it to stay that way till im ...
  A: No you cannot lose your virginity this way, you will still be a virgin even if you give or receive ...
i need help11/12/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: I'm 16 and my boyfriend is always bugging me about having sex and i just don't want to do can U plz ...
  A: You are soooo good for not putting it out for him. That says a HUGE amount about your self respect. ...
What do I do now?11/11/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: I've met the first guy I've ever felt anything for. I'm 19 and he's 21. I was a virgin until last ...
  A: You posted in the wrong place, I'm here to help people hold on to their virginity until they get a ...
question11/9/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: And she still keeps on doing it with her ex's but now she has a boyfriend and they do it all the ...
  A: Your cousin is evil, stay away from her. She cares nothing about any one but her self. That said, ...
virginity11/7/2009sarah
  Q: hey Sarah, I'm just a little bit confused about virginty, my question is can fingering results in ...
  A: Here are the answers to your four questions: 1. Yes 2. No 3. You can't tell...only a doctor can ...
virginity11/7/2009Cathy
  Q: hey Cathy, I'm just a little bit confused about virginty, my question is can fingering results in ...
  A: hey yaz, No, fingering can not cause a woman to loose her virginity. No, you cannot tell by looking ...
Resisting Temptation11/5/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: My name is Katie and I am 17 years old and a virgin. I have a boyfriend and we really care about ...
  A: Well, you certainly sound more mature than the average 17 year old. And I have the deepest respect ...
Marriage vs. Sex at 1911/5/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: Hey, I'm a nineteen year old girl and I've been dating my current boyfriend for almost a year. I've ...
  A: Hey Stephanie, Congratulations on keeping your virginity until 19! You are one incredible woman. ...
Kids?11/3/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: Well what if I marry someone who doesn't want to have kids either? ANSWER: That's fine, but is this ...
  A: I don't know any married couples who don't have sex, but plenty who don't have kids, because they ...
Resisting Temptation11/3/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: My name is Katie and I am 17 years old and a virgin. I have a boyfriend and we really care about ...
  A: Congratulations on keeping your virginity. It isn't about being Catholic, it's just the right thing ...
Question11/3/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: Have women any kind of desire for sex...? If yes then is it more than in males....?? In which age a ...
  A: This is out side of my expertise, which is to help people stay virgins until marriage. How ever, ...
I just need some advice10/25/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: im a 17 year old girl nd i have a boyfriend, iv known him since yr 8 we've alwyas liked eachother ...
  A: i'm joel. don't have sex with this guy. way too much stuff going on. for starters, why do you think ...
Should i lose my virginity?10/25/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: I'm dating this guy,and he is so wonderful.i've never met anyone like him.i think i maybe falling ...
  A: Your situation sounds wonderful. Yes, you should wait. You should always wait to have sex until ...
what am i10/24/2009sarah
  Q: !!! I am 18...I had sex with my boyfriend for about 2 min and I made him stop because it was hurting ...
  A: You have asked me two questions--what are you?, and do I think you are still a virgin? To answer the ...
What to do?10/24/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: I am merely 13 years old, but have been masturbating since age twelve. Lately, I have had ...
  A: Is it Wil or Randall? Either way, don't worry about it, buddy. Your feelings and urges are ...
viginity10/21/2009Cathy
  Q: is there is difference between the one raped at an early age of 8 years and the one who do sexually ...
  A: Yes there is a BIG difference, because the girl who was raped it wasnt her decision to loose her ...
what should i do????10/19/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: Ok here is the deal, I was going out with this boy and he was not a virgin, but it was ok to me ...
  A: You're welcome, Shameka. I understand your feelings, but the truth is, you already have been ...
penis enters the vagina Virginity is lost, HOW CAN DEVELOP VAGINA VIRGINITY AFTER ONCE LOST !!!10/19/2009sarah
  Q: Q : penis enters the vagina Virginity is lost, HOW CAN DEVELOP VAGINA VIRGINITY AFTER ONCE LOST !!!
  A: "Anatomically, or what happens inside when the vagina is penetrated with a penis" is that a thin ...
what should i do????10/18/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: Ok here is the deal, I was going out with this boy and he was not a virgin, but it was ok to me ...
  A: I guess my question to you is, why do you want to have sex with your new boy friend, but not marry ...
Virgin?10/18/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: My boyfriend put the head of his penis in the opening of my vagina. No other part of him went in. I ...
  A: You've got to be kidding. You know, I took a huge bite of a hamburger at McDonalds the other day, ...
Virginity10/12/2009Cathy
  Q: I'm 13 years old and I a problem. For the past couple of months I have been thinking about losing my ...
  A: hey Jasmin, Well, my reasons for why you shouldnt do it is because, you are only 13 not that age ...
desperate10/12/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: I am a 15 year old girl. I have a very high sex drive compared to other girls. (I started ...
  A: Hey Amanda, Well, first thing you need to do is have a best friend that's a girl, not a guy. ...
desperate10/11/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: I am a 15 year old girl. I have a very high sex drive compared to other girls. (I started ...
  A: You sure sound mature for 15! You're grammar and sentence structure correspond more closely to a ...
Am i a virgin?10/11/2009Amanda
  Q: up until i opened this website I have always seen myself as a virgin. I am seveenteen and I met this ...
  A: You are still a virgin. You only lose your virginity when a penis enters your vagina. Also, if you ...
Remaining a virgin10/3/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: I was raised in a christian home. My mother waited until marriage but my father we're not sure ...
  A: Hey Brett, Well that's fantastic, you sound like you have a lot going for you already. You're tall ...
Sex: What is its Meaning and Significance?9/30/2009sarah
  Q: I guess I'm just lost right now and don't really know where else to turn to. I am a virgin, but I ...
  A: I wish you had told me your age; also your gender. I'm impressed with the fact that you are giving ...
Sex: What is its Meaning and Significance?9/30/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: I guess I'm just lost right now and don't really know where else to turn to. I am a virgin, but I ...
  A: Well, you don't sound lost to me, quite the opposite, you're on the right path, actually, which is ...
Help9/28/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: i am a 16 yr old girl, and i am christian. i remain a virgin but sometimes i really question myself ...
  A: Hey Ally, Congratulations on still holding on to your virginity until 16! These days, that's a real ...
Do I have to say I lost my virginity?9/27/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: I am 18 and a freshman in college. I constantly get looks of surprise when I tell boys that I am a ...
  A: Well, Brittany, this is a tough one. What makes it so sad is you made it all the way to college ...
Virgin or not?9/25/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: I am facing what I consider a serious problem. When I was younger and didn't know much [read: ...
  A: Congratulations on your up coming marriage. I wish you all the happiness in the world, and many ...
Incest9/21/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: my brother forced me to have incest when we was younger, he was 13 and i was 10, he was definitely a ...
  A: Oh James, I am so very sorry to hear about what happened with your brother. Stuff like that can ...
Should i lose it or no?9/21/2009Amanda
  Q: :) As of right now I am very much on the fence about losing my virginity. Me and my last boyfriend ...
  A: You should definitely not have sex. You may want it, but later you are going to regret it. Right ...
virgin or not virgin.9/16/2009Kate
  Q: okay. I'm only 14 and i have a way older boyfriend who is 16 and he convinced me to try to have sex ...
  A: No, you are not a virgin. The loss of virginity happens when a penis enters your vagina. This ...
christian views on sex and marriage9/10/2009Wil
  Q: Hey, I was just reading your profile thing and it said you're a christian and i was just wondering ...
  A: Hey Kelsey, Basically what they are talking about is in the Bible is talks about adultery and ...
need advice9/9/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: So here's the deal: I'm 19 years old, a virgin, and strictly planning on staying so until marriage. ...
  A: Hey Nini! Very, very impressive, 19 and still a virgin? Absolutely incredible. You are doing the ...
About virginity9/5/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: How i know this vagina is fucked by someone ? Because my girlfriend can't bleed when i fucked her ...
  A: You'll need to stop using the words "fuck" and "fucked" when you speak to me, or I will no longer ...
staying a virgin and being HIV negative9/3/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: am a 23 year old guy. I have never had sex. I however have a girlfriend and its only getting harder. ...
  A: OK Antony, glad to be of service to you, my friend. Sadly, the world can be pretty harsh. I wish I ...
am still a virgin and i don't wanna lose it9/3/2009Joel Kimball
  Q: well,, i am a 19 years old virgin,, but i'v tried all sorts of sex activities with my boyfriend,, he ...
  A: Well Susan, I don't get it, you're only a technical virgin by the barest of margins now, one tiny ...

Page:   1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | 10  |  Next      All


Questions by
Active Experts:
KateCathyWil
sarahAmandaJoel Kimball
   

Email this page
     
User Agreement | Privacy Policy | Kids' Privacy Policy | Help
Copyright  © 2006 About, Inc. AllExperts, AllExperts.com, and About.com are registered trademarks of About, Inc. All rights reserved.