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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| hickies/lovebites | 1/9/2012 | Wil |
| Q: ) could i just ask a quick question relating to love bites, or hickies as some people call them,i ... A: A love bite or hickey is basically a bruise. There's nothig dangerous about them except for the ... | ||
| hand jobs and touching | 1/9/2012 | Wil |
| Q: ive never done one before and its about time in my relationship to give my boyfriend a "handjob" ... A: Hey Tammy, Sex, including oral sex, is an expression of yourself. So I can't really tell you what to ... | ||
| Sniffing My Boyfriend's Penis | 1/8/2012 | Wil |
| Q: First of all, I'm 18 years old and I don't have anything against people who have pre-marital sex but ... A: Hey Fatima, I won't judge you and your pleasures. We all have our little fetishes. It's rather ... | ||
| Sniffing My Boyfriend's Penis | 1/8/2012 | sarah |
| Q: First of all, I'm 18 years old and I don't have anything against people who have pre-marital sex but ... A: ... Whatever turns you on....is most likely the decaying odor of bacteria.... This site is not to ... | ||
| Confused | 1/4/2012 | sarah |
| Q: I'm not exactly sure how to word this question and I'm a little bit embarrassed since my situation ... A: You're dealing with several issues. Whether to accept that you're a sexual being, or reject sex. ... | ||
| virginity | 1/2/2012 | sarah |
| Q: i lose my virgin before marriage now i am scaring when i get marriage after if he ask my virginity ... A: I think what you're having a problem with is whether to lie to your future husband about your ... | ||
| Is it wrong to want to be a virgin for life maybe? | 11/25/2011 | Joel Kimball |
| Q: my name is Shayda, and I am a 22 year old virgin and still going strong! I am very proud of it, ... A: You, my dear, get my Virgin Goddess of the Day award! Ordinarily pride is a bad thing, but in this ... | ||
| BlowJobss | 11/8/2011 | sarah |
| Q: SO, my friend Haylei just told me that she has had oral sex with her boyfriend and she doesn't know ... A: Your "friend" has already told "you." Who else does she need to tell....and why would she need to ... | ||
| blowjobs | 10/20/2011 | sarah |
| Q: i'm zoey and i'm 15. me and my bf andrew have been together for 8 months and 3 weeks now. he is my ... A: I'm sorry to have to tell you that this is not a HOW TO DO IT SITE but instead a site for those who ... | ||
| is massage with happy ending wrong? | 10/15/2011 | Joel Kimball |
| Q: im 19 this year,i am currently single. this few months i have been passing by massage poular knowing ... A: You sound like a very moral man, I am encouraged by your concern about this act. I think you should ... | ||
| is she a virgin | 10/10/2011 | sarah |
| Q: am a recently married guy, my wife used to tell me that she is a virgin, on our wedding night we had ... A: From what you describe,it is likely that SHE WAS A VIRGIN WHEN YOU MARRIED HER. From your ... | ||
| Im a liar | 10/10/2011 | Joel Kimball |
| Q: I am 18 and just started college! I am a virgin (never kissed anyone either) and plan to stay a ... A: First off, you are doing the right thing, staying a virgin until marriage. If you do this one thing, ... | ||
| Girlfriend and her faith | 9/24/2011 | Joel Kimball |
| Q: I'm 16 and i've been seeing my girlfriend for 6 months and we're both virgins. She's the greatest, ... A: You are welcome, Bryan. "Protection", what ever that is, doesn't work 100% of the time, and any ... | ||
| Girlfriend and her faith | 9/23/2011 | Joel Kimball |
| Q: I'm 16 and i've been seeing my girlfriend for 6 months and we're both virgins. She's the greatest, ... A: I'm not the expert to ask about this, my expertise is helping people KEEP their virginity until they ... | ||
| Masturbation | 9/8/2011 | Joel Kimball |
| Q: I would say that right now my relationship with God is at the best it has ever been. Unfortunately, ... A: You are on the right path, Christianity is the only true way. But be warned, Christianity is having ... | ||
| tightened vagina | 8/18/2011 | sarah |
| Q: So Sunday me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time. He could not get it in me for a long time ... A: Could you please give me more details that would help in being able to understand more about your ... | ||
| sexual intercourse | 8/17/2011 | sarah |
| Q: i am 22 old yr male...i have a gf n she is not virgin...i have a problem that every time during sex ... A: Your question does not relate to my site as the site is intended for those people who are having ... | ||
| anal sex | 8/11/2011 | sarah |
| Q: this is justin again. i asked you a question a little while ago about if my gf can get pregnant ... A: Justin, I found your graphic descriptions offensive and will not entertain such questions. Clean up ... | ||
| Virginity Test | 8/9/2011 | Wil |
| Q: I am Madhu and I am staying in INDIA. My parents are forcing me for Arrange marriage and I agreed ... A: I am happy for you. I hope you find that partner. And as for staying a virgin, the key secret is ... | ||
| Virgin | 8/8/2011 | sarah |
| Q: I'm a christian, 33 year old female, and still a Virgin... And while I have been taught that ... A: Religion is a "belief." Whether your beliefs have come from an organized religion of your choice, ... | ||
| Virginity Test | 8/8/2011 | Wil |
| Q: I am Madhu and I am staying in INDIA. My parents are forcing me for Arrange marriage and I agreed ... A: Madhutmm, I've had many Indian girls ask me how to fake a virginity test and they usually end up ... | ||
| Question about preserving virginity | 7/29/2011 | sarah |
| Q: I live with my single mother, and am 20 yrs old. I love my mom, and we are very close. However, she ... A: Your first question was a while ago... Since you agree that the advice of your friends wasn't of ... | ||
| Long Distance and First Time | 7/18/2011 | sarah |
| Q: I'm 16, and I've been talking to this guy who used to go to my primary school for about a year now, ... A: Relax and enjoy his friendship. He's probably just as nervous. If you're relaxed, he will probably ... | ||
| Long Distance and First Time | 7/18/2011 | sarah |
| Q: I'm 16, and I've been talking to this guy who used to go to my primary school for about a year now, ... A: How exciting! Your friend's travelling down to see a former classmate. Wait till he sees you in ... | ||
| distance to hymen | 7/18/2011 | sarah |
| Q: I wonder how many centimeters approximately from virgin mouth to the hymen location. is this ... A: While I respect your cultural tradition for women to decide to be virgins when they marry, it seems ... | ||
| can i have sex with my boyfrd | 7/17/2011 | sarah |
| Q: iam 20 yrs old girl,now iam engaged but iam loving a boy of 23. we loved each other,,,,deeply for ... A: I can't make a decision for you. Only share my opinion that you are making a dishonest decision--to ... | ||
| can i have sex with my boyfrd | 7/16/2011 | sarah |
| Q: iam 20 yrs old girl,now iam engaged but iam loving a boy of 23. we loved each other,,,,deeply for ... A: I very much appreciate your attempt at writing in English. However, it is really not clear to me ... | ||
| Is it wrong to have a boyfriend as a Christian | 7/9/2011 | sarah |
| Q: I'm 18, a Christian and a virgin, I have a boyfriend, and I want to know if it is wrong as a ... A: With the information you have given me, that you are 18 years old, a Christian, and that you have a ... | ||
| gay female virgin | 7/3/2011 | sarah |
| Q: Hey, so I'm a gay female 17 y/o, and I'm also a virgin, as in a TOTAL virgin (i haven't been kissed ... A: You may want to ask someone at another site if I'm unable to answer your questions, but I am very ... | ||
| Question about preserving virginity | 6/18/2011 | sarah |
| Q: I live with my single mother, and am 20 yrs old. I love my mom, and we are very close. However, she ... A: I totally agree it is hard to watch or listen to much today without being reminded of sex. And, at ... | ||
| am i still virgin? | 6/13/2011 | sarah |
| Q: first of all.,i would like to thank you for answering my question.. as of now,im 21 years old...when ... A: You did not say whether there was vaginal penetration--or not. Sometimes children become curious ... | ||
| am i still virgin? | 6/13/2011 | AGM |
| Q: first of all.,i would like to thank you for answering my question.. as of now,im 21 years old...when ... A: What a pleasure to hear from someone from the Philippines! My husband is from there! Yes, you are ... | ||
| Kind Of Guilty... | 6/11/2011 | Joel Kimball |
| Q: My Name Is Sara, And I'm 13yrs Old, Unfortunately I've Already Lost My Virginity, Which Is Kind Of ... A: Yes, loss of your virginity is sad. Very sad. But trying to convince your friend not to have sex out ... | ||
| the need for sex | 6/9/2011 | sarah |
| Q: I am 20 almost 21. I am a Virgin and I haven't kiss anyone yet. Needless to say that I haven't been ... A: I'm sorry this has you very worried. Let's look at what you've told me....you've made your ... | ||
| regarding masturbation | 6/8/2011 | Joel Kimball |
| Q: is it ok if i masturbate with my hands?and is ok if i masturbate 2-3 times in a day?does it affect ... A: Anay, this is out side of my area of expertise. I'm not a doctor. How ever, I don't think ... | ||
| Hymen | 5/22/2011 | AGM |
| Q: ey, am 19 years old i never had sex or entered a tampon and i don't play sports, but today i kinda ... A: Please see my previous answers to this question. Hymens are different shapes. The hymen is a very ... | ||
| Hymen | 5/20/2011 | Joel Kimball |
| Q: Hey, am 19 years old i never had sex or entered a tampon and i don't play sports, but today i kinda ... A: This question is out of my area of expertise. But definitely, Congratulations on making it to 19 and ... | ||
| virginity | 5/16/2011 | AGM |
| Q: I'm a 20 year old male. i,m still a virgin but my girlfriend of 3 months isn't. we have had oral ... A: First I need to know why you want to stay a virgin, and if your girlfriend supports it. If you ... | ||
| Am I still a Virgin? | 5/13/2011 | sarah |
| Q: When I was 14-15 I was in an online relationship where I met someone who I talked to for over a ... A: While I don't understand how someone prompted you to go as far as you did--to be on camera and ... | ||
| a second chance? | 5/12/2011 | Joel Kimball |
| Q: I am struggling with the fact that I am not a virgin and I'm not sure that I will find a guy that ... A: Sorry to hear about all the trouble and pain. You do sound like a nice young lady. How important ... | ||
sarah
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Expertise
I have raised three teenage daughters and have been there for them, through peer pressure, helping them on self esteem issues, sharing feelings, communicating with their partners and making personal decisions. I am very proud of them today and feel fortunate to have had the education to guide them in becoming the confident and professional women they are today as well as valued wives and mothers. In my career as a registered nurse, I've been a childbirth educator for pregnant teens and at the delivering bedside of teens as young as 12. I've taught health education to students from grades K-12, especially helping them to explore the values that can work well in their lives, helped them to clarify which values might be most meaningful to them, and have always shared the concepts of caring (for themselves and others), having respect (for themselves and others) and taking responsibility (expecially for their own actions). I can be a listening ear, supportive when needed, an educator, (I have a master's degree as a nurse-specialist in child and adolescent health), and a resource for information.
Experience
As a mother,
Health Educator K-12,
Parent-Teen Workshop Facilitator, Teacher Trainor
Registered Nurse (Labor & Delivery)
Childbirth Educator for Pregnant Teens
Counselor of Pregnant Teens
Child Care Educator for Teen Parents; Adoptive Parents
Maternity Professor--student nurses
Education/Credentials
Registered Nurse/AAS degree, County College of Morris, Randolph
Childbirth Educator, ASPO Lamaze
BA degree - (Education), University of Massachusetts/Amherst
MS degree - (Clinical Nurse Specialist, Child & Adolescent Health), University of
Massachusetts/Amherst
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