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Hi i am 25 year old men. I have 2 questions about virginity.
First,I never ever had a sex but I masturbate often does this means i loose my virginity and what exactly happens when a man loose virginity during sex. Like, women as far as i know they bleed after loosing their virginity.
Second, In today's world a man virginity is very rear and my friends make me embarrass on this.I always been said by my friends to have sex before marriage does this make any difference. So, should i go for sex before marriage or not?. How can one say that i am virgin while sex.
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Hey Raj,

Nothing happens when a man looses his virginity. A woman will bleed and there will be pain, but there is nothing like this for men. Now, I do not know Australian culture, but I believe it is similar to the U.S. If that is true then sex before marriage is somewhat accepted, but from the people I have talked to who waited until they were married, they have all said it is better.

I hope these answer your questions, If not please send a follow up.

Thank you for your questions, I hope I helped,
W><M

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